Getting Your Fantasies Met (With Her Thinking It’s Her Idea) The Lust Mirror
by Lawrence Lanoff
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The Lust Mirror
The Lust Mirror "Curiosity is the lust of the mind." –Thomas Hobbes
This technique is great! Two scenarios make this technique really powerful: 1. if you are starting a new relationship OR 2. if you want to rekindle your existing relationship. First, with the Lust Mirror, you are reflecting your desire for her back to her in a way that helps her reconnect with what brought you together in the first place. A lot of guys tell me that their relationships start off energized and passionate and with them having a strong sense of confidence and virility. But then the relationship gets more serious, you decide to move in together and at first everything seems great. But then . . . She starts nagging, complaining that you’re not pulling your weight and need to help out around the house more. Or that you never take her out to do anything romantic. At first you guys were fucking all over the house, but now you’re lucky if you get a kiss before you leave. She always seems too tired and you are tired of feeling rejected. What used to be a hot and heavy relationship has now devolved into what feels more like living with your mother. It’s easy for relationships to fall into this rut. Day-to-day life can be monotonous and boring. However, it’s important that neither of you lose touch with that spark that brought you together in the first place.
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The Lust Mirror It’s important that you engage with her in a way that takes you both out of the “responsible adult” roles that everyone has to play, and instead playfully reminds her that, even though you have been domesticated, at your core you are still a wild and hot-blooded man and she is still a wild and hot-blooded woman. The second way the Lust Mirror is powerful is that it lets her know that you are thinking about her and desiring her even when she’s not around. If you are only approaching her for sex once you guys lie down for bed, you are sending the wrong message! She begins to feel that you only want to have sex because it’s convenient – not because she makes you horny like no other woman can! Women want to feel desired and irresistible. By approaching her with this technique, you are keeping that part of your relationship alive. The part that lets her know that nobody can get your dick hard like she can! And it’s FUN!
Here’s how the Lust Mirror works: You are going to engage in a back and forth conversation all about sex and desires via text. Remember the game you played as kids where each person in a group added a line to build a story? That is what is happening here. Except it’s only the two of you creating the story. First, I do this, then you do this. Then you do this, and I do this. The entire time you are communicating your horny desires, she is feeling like she’s the hottest woman alive. Here’s an example of the Lust Mirror in action . . . Me: Let’s create a story together. Her: Um . . . Ok . . .
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The Lust Mirror Me: I will write a line and then you write a line. Sound good? Her: Sure. Me: I just picked you up from the airport. We haven’t seen each other in two weeks. You’re getting into the car and I can’t believe how sexy you look even after a long day of traveling . . . Her: You’re speeding, because you want to get us home quickly . . . Me: I lick my finger and then lift up your skirt, pulling your panties to one side. I slide my finger in. You are so wet and then you . . . Her: And then I glance down and notice a bulge in your pants . . . I lean over and unbutton your pants and pull down the waistband of your boxers . . . Me: And then you touch my cock, wrapping your hand tightly around it . . . I’m finding it hard to concentrate on driving, so I find an abandoned parking lot and pull into it . . . Her: As you are pulling over, I lean down and begin sucking your cock. Giving you a nice wet bj just the way I know you like it . . . Me: I pull your hair back into a ponytail and pull it hard and then you . . . Her: I sit up, take off my panties, and move over to straddle you. I can’t take it anymore . . . Me: I push you back and say, “No. Not yet. I want to taste your sweet pussy first.” We get out of the car and move into the back seat. You lay down and I put my mouth on that pussy that you know I love so much . . . Her: You start flicking your tongue on my clit teasing me. Then you suck it a little . . . Me: I start tongue-fucking you. You taste so damn good!
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The Lust Mirror Her: It feels so amazing! But I want you inside me so bad. I start begging you to give me your big, hard cock NOW! I can’t take it anymore! Me: I turn you around and get you on your knees. I need to get a view of that beautiful ass! I slide into you. Only the tip though. Just barely penetrating you. Slowly pulling it in and out. Her: I slam my ass back into your cock. I need it all in me! You start pounding me deep and hard. I’m rubbing my clit and you are ... Me: I feel you start trembling. Your whole body is shaking and you’re moaning loudly. Suddenly I feel your pussy spasming on my cock as you start cumming hard . . . Her: I turn around and take your cock in my mouth again. I start deep-throating and sucking you hard. My eyes are begging you to give me your cum. I want to taste it and eat it all . . . Me: I grab the back of your head and start thrusting my cock down your throat. You’re gagging, but I know you can take it. You give the best bjs. With the way you suck cock, it doesn’t take long before I give you what you want. Her: Mmmmmm. I lick my lips with satisfaction. You taste like pineapple.
Damn. Hurry home!
Me: Looking forward to real-life sex! You better be ready when I see you! You can see that we each altered things slightly. The theme of the scenario was irresistibility and desire. For instance, I had to pull the car over. I also communicated how sexy I still found her even though she had been traveling all day. I reinforced how much I love her vagina by telling her I needed to taste her before we could fuck. The Lust Mirror doesn’t have to end any particular way. Be creative and add your own flavor.
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The Lust Mirror
Kicking It Off The first time the two of you do this technique, you can open by sending a text that says . . . “Let’s create a story together. I’ll say a line then you will say a line.” Once you’ve tried it a few times, you can just jump into it out of the blue. Send a text describing an action without telling her you are creating a story. After you’ve done this a few times, she will know what to do next.
Volley Back and Forth You begin by saying what you’re doing and what she’s doing:
I just picked you up from the airport. You are getting into the car.
I just got out of the shower, and you are lying on the bed.
I wake you up by licking your clit.
We just got home after a late night out.
I’m at the office. You come to bring me lunch.
Next you need to give a cliffhanger to your sentence so she has to fill in the next bit of action
. . . and then you . . .
. . . then I say . . .
. . . then you touch my . . .
. . . then I begin to . . .
. . . then you ask me to . . .
. . . then I ask you to . . .
. . . I take off my . . .
. . . you take off your . . .
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The Lust Mirror Now, she will volley back the next part of the story. It will keep you on your toes, since you won’t know how she will respond. This is part of what makes it exciting. You are co-creating the event and can’t plan too far in advance. She might not remember to add in a little cliffhanger, but just roll with it. The beauty of texting is you can take a minute to craft your reply. You can also be spontaneous and type out immediately what comes to mind. Don’t think about it too much or be too critical. This should be playful and fun. Building momentum is sexy, and trust me, she doesn’t care about a misspelled word or grammar mistake. Use what she sends you to inspire your reply. Giving appreciation and positive strokes are ways of amping up the desire. When you do it for her, she’s likely to follow suit. Notice how, in my example, I show her appreciation many times.
I can’t believe how sexy you look even after a long day of traveling.
I put my mouth on that pussy that you know I love so much.
You taste so damn good!
I need to get a view of that beautiful ass!
You give the best bjs.
With the way you suck cock, it doesn’t take long before I give you what you want.
I also reinforce the technique I like her to use when she gives me oral. Deep-throating and swallowing my cum. Even though this is through text and a made up text, I’m coaching her on what feels good for me. Pay attention to what she says to you, too. She’s probably giving you specific clues as to what she enjoys and would like you to do. Also, if the story takes a weird turn, you can steer it in a different direction. The plot is yours to create! Course correct with these phrases.
I love what you are doing, but I surprise you by . . .
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I want to tease you by slowing things down so I . . .
I’m overcome by desire so I . . .
Your story will naturally follow a rhythm and order of events similar to sex. 1. Foreplay 2. Oral Sex 3. Intercourse 4. Orgasm That does not mean you have to follow it in that order! I often only take the Lust Mirror into oral sex. Sometimes it’s both of us and sometimes it’s just one of us. Have fun. You can only do this the right way if you just relax and have fun. I always like to end it with a positive line like . . .
You make me feel so good.
You know just how to please me.
You always satisfy me.
I love making you feel good.
I love making you cum hard like that.
Looking forward to real-life sex!
I can’t wait to see you!
Be ready when I see you!
Hurry home!
Can’t wait for tonight/this weekend.
Leave work now!
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The Lust Mirror The most frequently asked question about this technique: What if I start the lust mirror and she doesn’t respond? There may be a few reasons for this. Maybe you caught her at a bad time. Wait a little while and say, “You must be busy. To be continued later. ;)” This gives her the chance to answer later when she does have the time to focus. If you think she’s not answering because she is too shy or isn’t confident about how to respond, I recommend looking at the Porn Script for questions to ask her or a scenario that you can orchestrate for her. Also, reassure her that there is no wrong way to do this. It’s about being playful and fun.
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