10 RAPID ways to get a woman interested in you by Kezia (author of best selling “15 stes to be!oming a master sedu!er"
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Hey guys
I often get asked ‘ How can I make more impact in my interactions with women?” by my students. There are hundreds of ways to achieve this, but for this e-book, I have broken it down to ! of the most effective and "#$I% ways that &'( can use in order to achieve this ob)ective.
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1. Break patterns! %oing the une+pected does not mean having to do something weird or strange or out of character. ubty breaking patterns in a conversation forces the woman out of her auto piot mode/ and as a resut it creates an important hair ine shift in her per ception of you. Here are a few effective ways of breaking patterns in an interaction with a woman you want.
a. 0hen she tes you what she does for a iving %' 1'T respond with the usua and predictabe foowing responses “Do you like it?” “How did you get in to that?” “Who do you work for/where do you work?” “How long have you been doing that for?”
Instead try and use the foowing more effective response2
“Is that something you wanted to do since you were very young”?
“Really? o tell me what characteristics do you need in order to be good at your !ob?”
“If you had "ero chance if failure# what would you like to do most in the world?”
# these aternative answers wi create an important hairine shift in her perception of you and wi force her to snap out of her auto response mode.
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b. 0hen she tes you her favourite pass time, instead of nodding your head and repying with the predictabe coo” repy.
3haenger her and ask her why she does not make her passion her )ob? How can she have such a strong passion4hobby and not make it her ife?
0omen aways respond we to this.
5reaking patterns is a rapid way to create impact with a woman and can start you on the road of making a deep connection with her.
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2. Break Rapport.
5reaking rapport whist your taking to a hot woman might sound ike the ast thing you want to do, but in fact its one of the most $'0*"7(8 things you can do9 :y video right here wi e+pain to you how to do this and why it is so effective2
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5reaking rapport conveys the fact that you have 8I:IT*% or $"*3I'(* time, which wi aways come across as HI>H 6#8(*.
5reaking rapport gives the sensation that the gir cannot **$ you, and that you coud iteray sip through her fingers at any given moment9 This e+cites women, as it heightens the chaenge that you present to her9 The chaenge being that she has to 0'" in order to keep you happy and to stay with her 9
3. Use double sided compliments!
I ove teaching my students the art of giving doube-sided compiments to women.
The resuts men get when using doube sided compiments $"'$*"8& are aways positive9 tudents often say to me that when they give a woman an outright compiment, they are often met with the nice but essentiay useess repy Thanks” and this can be a rea All Rights Reserved Kezia Noble !"#" $ www.kezia%noble.com
conversation kier. I often hear my sef-doing this when men give me compiments in reation to my image4stye4ook etc.
0hy do I do this? It can be for @ reasons, but first of a, et me be cear in one thing. It is 1'T because I don/t ike compiments, in fact I 8'6* compiments and I/m not ashamed to admit it either9 The reasons I and other women simpy repy ‘thanks/ and then await the uncomfortabe sience are these2
First reason: There is nothing eft to say9
There is nothing eft to say on TH#T sub)ect. If a guy tes me I have a reay coo dress sense, I/m not going to fee obiged to te him why I have that particuar dress sense, and I don/t fee obiged to give him a compiment back either. o what do I do? I simpy smie sweety and say thanks” and then I await the conversation to inevitaby end. The compiment, is a statement, and is not a
Second reason: The woman fees uncomfortabe or forced9 The other reason women wi answer a mans compiment with )ust a thanks” is because, for some woman, a compiment can make them fee ever so sighty uncomfortabe. They can fee a itte sef-conscious or they can fee that the guy is forcing the interaction in to something more firtatious, which they maybe too shy to compy with, or which they are not "*#%& to do yet.
These are the reasons why I teach my students the art of giving doube sided compiments. # doube-sided compiment can produce a coupe of resuts. It can hep dispay high standards4vaue effectivey whist forcing the gir to respond with more than )ust a poite and unhepfu ‘thanks/ #nd in most cases, it wi even get her to
“$ double sided com%liment# is giving the girl a vague com%liment# and then adding to it a D&'$I(&D sentence that will translate as) “but there is room for im%rovement “ or “but I have seen better” without# of course actually using those words”*
Example:
“+ou look great* ,ut if you made your hair a darker/blonder colour then you would be very hot”
“+ou dress really well# but if you wore something a little more tight/elegant/shorter# then you would be -W.W”
Here, you are teing her she ooks good, but if she took your advice then she coud ook H'T or *C&. 'r even more appeaing than she does aready.
Its important to begin the doube-sided compiment, with a vague compiment, so as it wi not come across as an insut. If you )ust tod her to ater her appearance to ook better, then she might very we react defensivey or aggressivey. 0ith the first part of the doube-sided compiment, you are making it cear you find her attractive. THI I I:$'"T#1T.
1'T*2 #though I teach D1*>D to my students, and beieve that there are most definitey penty of advantages in using D1*>D in the right circumstances. I am aso aware that 1*> can cause bad reactions in women too. This is why I prefer doube sided compiments.
Forcing a response
# doube-sided compiment aways gets a response from the women, and usuay it is a $'ITI6* response too. They never respond to doube sided compiments with the dreaded conversation kier ‘Thanks” Instead they usuay ask the guy
# ot of my students te me that women say stuff ike2
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my clothes in the dry cleaners etc”
The moment a woman is
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Here are some tried and tested doube sided compiments
“mmm# thats a nice %erfume# let m smell it %ro%erly” leans in to her neck* “Its nice# but I used to know a girl that wore “1oco 1hanel” 2insert %referred %erfume3 and it was so se0y# every man would look around when they smelled her come in the room”
“+ou are an attractive woman# but if you em%hasised your eyes/li%s more then you would look so fucking hot ”
“ I like the way you dress# its very cute# but if you wore something more elegant like a long backless black dress then you would be much more se0y”
“(et me see your shoes**” Holds leg u% to ins%ect shoes* “'hey are nice# but if you wore some stra%%y killer heels you would be so hot”
There is iteray an endess amount of doube-sided compiments you can use, and it can aways change depending on the woman/s ook or stye.
>o and use them as soon as possibe, and eradicate the dreaded thanks” response forever. ave the outright compiment Awhich means no but” or If foowing the compimentB when you are firmy in the seduction Eone. This wi act as a reward and pus she wi appreciate it and beieve its sincerity far more than if you had used it whist in the comfort Eone.
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This wi obviousy, automaticay create immediate impact, simpy because men do not usuay approach women in the day ight hours. &et the coffee shops, parks, shops, pubic transport and the busy high streets are fu of singe women9 5ut the probem here is that a ot of men %' 1'T know how to approach a gir in the ‘day time/ and conse
a. Try and use a direct opener b. # direct opener means stating your intention straight away. I.e. I think you ook beautifu” or I think you have incredibe dress sense” or I reay ike the way you carry your sef, it/s very eegant” This is )ust a few e+ampes of hundreds of direct opening ines that you can choose to use. 0hy use a direct opener in the day rather than indirect? To answer this
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c. 0hen you approach her, do not begin with the dreaded ine I was )ust over there watching you and..” This conveys the fact that you are some guy sneaking around and watching her from behind the shadows, and it aso makes it seem as if you have too much time on your hands.
d. &our first words shoud be This is reay random, but..”
e. #ways use a 7#8* TI:* 3'1T"#I1T.
# fase time constraint shows the gir that you have a imited amount of time to get to know her.
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“It would be cool to get to know you a bit# but unfortunately I only have 4 minutes because I have some friends I need to meet”
How and why wi this hep you? Think about it.
8et/s say the woman ikes your approach and thinks your kind of cute4coo etc, but is apprehensive about having to tak to you for too ong incase she find out that doesn/t actuay ike you that much, if you don/t use a fase time constraint she wi probaby )ust say she/s too busy to chat to you, simpy because she does not want to be in a predicament where by you might be hanging around her for too ong.
It aso conveys the fact that you are busy, and are not in the habit of hanging around streets or bookshops hitting on unsuspecting women.
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If an uncomfortabe pause arises after the opener, which can often happen even if the gir has accepted your offer of taking to you for J or ! minutes, %' 1'T do what most guys do and ask her what her name is or where she works or what she/s up to. This wi ony resut in causing an uncomfortabe 8(88 in the interaction.
5ecause your approach is fu of energy, you need to keep up the e+citement4momentum 6*"5#88&.
o Instead of asking a series of mundane
“+ou know what# this so random** I tell you what# Im going to say 5 things about my self and then you have to say 5 things about your self# but they have to be interesting deal?”
&ou go on and te her three things Ahave these three things panned in advanceB and try to make sure that one is about your pastK one is about your present and one about your future. This wi #80#& make a great impact on the gir, and in response she wi give you some interesting information about hersef. This wi get the conversation going in fu swing, and give you enough conversation materia to ast for ages.
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as presentB can aways add some vita verba impact in to what can aways potentiay be a du interaction that eads nowhere. 5y getting the gir to tak about memories and her future pans and desires as we as what she is thinking and4or doing in the present wi not ony bring impact in to the conversation but it wi aso get her to start *:'TI'1#88& I16*T in you. Think about it. How many guys get her to revea memories and desires so rapidy? he wi ink emotiona states Athat you wi have purposefuy put her inB with you9 #s with any type of investment whether it be money, time or emotions, we aways want to see that investment again and again9 "emember to use T"'1> emotiona words, rather than band words such as nice” or coo”, as this wi hep to get her instanty anchoring emotions to those words. A#s strong4emotiona descriptions and words make more impactB (se future pro)ections, such as I can )ust imagine us choosing a pet, you woud probaby pick a cat and I wi want a dog, and in the end we wi get a hamster or a rat” This is a simpe and ighthearted way to start using the ‘future pro)ection/ routine. 7rom there it can go on to something a itte more meaningfu.
1ote2 If you decide to te her about a memory of yours that is sad Awhether true or notB make sure that you don/t start over paying it, in which I mean, %' 1'T come across as vunerabe and in need of sympathy. 6unerabiity is a ski women use to attract men, but this ski does not work the other way round9
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0H#T??????? I hear you shout. urey this woud ruin any chance you have of getting that woman back in your bed9? This woud go against the singe piece of advice a the women in your ife have given you so far right?
0rong9
0hen I say ‘provoke )eaousy/, that does not mean you shoud stand there with your tongue hanging out whenever the ne+t bonde waks past you or that you shoud go and chat up other women in front of the gir you ike.
:y advice is to provoke :I8% yet *77*3TI6* )eaousy in a woman, but you must do it 6*"& surreptitiousy. If done correcty you can heat up her desire for you which wi hep you transition the interaction away from the comfort stage and on to the se+ua stage. All Rights Reserved Kezia Noble !"#" $ www.kezia%noble.com
How do you do this? How do you provoke )ust the right amount of )eaousy in a woman without going too far?
impe. The rue is not to make her )eous towards other women in the cub, but instead, make her )eaouse towards the other women in your ife Apast and presentB.
5ring in a story or two or three about maybe an e+-girfriend or femae friend or recent se+ua con
This is aso a perfect way to remind the gir that you are a ‘se+ua creature/ and not some kind of a monk that she thinks she can )ust be friends with9 Its very common for men to get in to the dreaded friends Eone and never get out9 This shoud be nipped in the bud as soon as comfort has been made in the interaction, and the best way to do this A5efore making your actua moveB is to do the above suggestions that I have given you that wi convey the fact you are se+ua without actuay being verbay se+ua T'0#"% her.
. +er4ect #our bod# language!
I am a big fan of behaviora therapy, and this is something that I have used to hep my students combat approach an+iety as we as creating an immediate positive impact when meeting a woman.
If you are feeing nervous when going to approach a woman, then hanging your shouders in a stooped ike manner and your beer botte hed up to your chest and an apoogetic voice and facia e+pression, wi ony serve to fue those insecure thoughts you are having.
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:y book /J steps t becoming a master seducer/ e+pains how to perfect the idea body anguage in greater detai and it incudes the ‘L coumn stage/.
'nce you adopt this idea body anguage you wi find that your initia fears seem to evaporate faster than you might have e+pected. This of course is a thanks to the behavariou therapy process. 5y atering your actions you wi ater your mind set, iteray meaning ‘&'(" #3TI'1 H#$* &'(" 5*8I*7”.
&ou cannot continue to be shy and scared for too ong if your body is portraying that of a strong and confident person.
5. o cold readings!
3od readings and making detaied assumptions about the woman aways make impact9 0oman ove to be psychoanayEed, its something we derive great peasure from. 0hist men hate having a torch ight shone in side them, and usuay resist opening up, we women ove it9
0e vaue a man who can see past our bravados4masks and4or ater egos. It presents to us a great sense of reief as we as the deveopment of a sincere respect for the man. A# woman must respect a man before she can be attracted to himB
eep your cod readings detaied9 There is nothing worse than a guy giving us some random and vague assumption about our seves such as2 I reckon you/re a reay fun person” or &ou seem to be a reay nice person”
If you use a vague assumption ike these e+ampes, then a you wi get in r eturn is a vague response.
eep the assumption4cod reading %*T#I8*%. :ake it taior made for her9 he wi r espond so much better this way.
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I.e.2 "eay? That/s interesting, te me more” 0hat this does, is it shows her that you are now intrigued to find out more about this side of her that you did not reaiEe e+isted. In return she wi give you a ot of information about her sef because your assumption was so detaied9
Here are some usefu cod reading ines, which wi give you an outine of what you can create your sef2
I reckon you were seriousy naughty at schoo, but not ike the cass cown kind of naughty, but more ike the instigator behind the cass cown, very sneaky”
I bet you were spoit as a chid, but rebeed none the ess )ust for the sake of rebeing”
&ou seem to be someone who knows what they want and knows how to get it, but at times you get a bit aEy and put that ambition to the side”
To me you seem ike a woman who has a ot of mae friends and ony a few cose femae friends, because in the past women have et you down or been backstabbers”
8ike I said, even if they are way off the mark, she wi respond by teing you H'040H' H* "*#88& I, and as a resut she wi be suppying you with a weath of information about hersef with out you asking a singe
6. 'iss er on te 4oreead.
I wanted to incude at east kino-reated tip in this e-book. 7unny enough, the innocent Aor not so innocentB kiss on the forehead has a specia power that affects women a ot.
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her atogether.
he does not e+pect a man to kiss her on her forehead9 The ony men that do that to her is her father or her boyfriends.
he wi not push you away or move from you when you do this, as it something so une+pected and so pure, that she wi not have time to react straight away. Instead she wi start to wonder whether you ike her in a /friend/ way or a ‘se+ua way/ and this wi resut in eaving her in an emotiona and psychoogica state of imbo Awhich is a >''% position to have her inB
0omen aways ike it when guys do the forehead kiss, it makes them fee protected and oved, and strangey enough, it eaves them wanting more of a kiss of a different nature.
6.Role7pla#
(se some verba roe-pay. If anyone comes aong and )oins you and the gir you are taking to, introduce your sef as her e+-husband. #dd a itte roe-pay by saying you are currenty discussing who gets to keep the kids and who gets to keep the dog etc. 0omen neary aways respond by gigging and paying a ong with it.
This aways breaks that uncomfortabe moment when she has to introduce you to her friends. "ather than have her forget your name or say this is erm..Mohn who I )ust erm met..”
If one of your friends )oins, then introduce the gir as you mother in aw or something humorous.
"oe-pay is a ight yet effective way of adding the ‘fun/ eement in to the interaction. &ou can aso transition the ‘payfu roe-pay in to one of a mor e se+ua nature ater on, and because she had compied with the payfu roe pay, the more ‘se+ua/ roe-pay that you wi introduce in to the interaction wi 1'T come off as weird or creepy.
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1'T*2 0hen doing roe-pay, you must be bod with it9 'therwise, if you/re nervous or unsure it wi backfire9
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1o one ikes a ‘head nodder/9 Head nodders make N*"' I:$#3T9 There are penty of ways to chaenge the woman such as2 a. trong opinions b. 3haenging her payfuy c. 3haenging her inteectuay d. $aying devis advocate
:en beieve that if they agree with everything the gir says, and nod their head ike good itte boys, then they wi magicay be given access to her bed. 0"'1>9
D. 6.' ,&6D +.7R .W6 R&$(I'+ I6 $11.RD$61& WI'H H&R8 0omen can sme this a mie off, and it actuay works #>#I1T the mans chances.
# ot of men hod on the ‘fase beief/ that a woman wi 1'T seep with him because or at east party because he did not ike her favorite movie or did not share her poitica views or he did not share the same passion for her favorite hoiday destination.
'ut of a the women I know, 1*6*" once have any of them said they did not go back home with a man because he didn/t agree with her about things, or that he had his own mind, his own ike and disikes9
ounds obvious right? 5ut ask your sef how many times you have found your sefbending your own reaity in accordance with a woman that you are chatting up? How many times have you caught your sef agreeing with her Aeven though you didn/t reayB and nodding your head and repying with vague responses such as coo” nice” etc?
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one of the FO we practiced e+cuses that us girs use when we want to re)ect a mans advances.
0omen want menta stimuation 1'T # $*'$8* $8*#*"9 o why do men resist chaenging a woman? @ answers to this
The first answer we have touched on aready. 5ecause men have a fase beief that women wi be attracted to them more if they compy and agree.
The second reason is, because a man is worried that the chaenge Awhether payfu or semi-seriousB might escaate in to a fu bown argument, and if this happens then he fees that this conse
Here I am going to share with you an invauabe techni
It wi show you how to take that ‘energy/ from the heated argument and manipuate it in to a se+ua energy9
%e di44usion tecniue:
If the chaenge resuts in a bit of a heated debate, pin point the e+act moment you can see the debate becoming an argument, or the point where it becomes persona. #t that e+act point, rather than back down or try and change the sub)ect. mie, and say stop” eep smiing, hod her gaEe, and then continue with.. :e and you are never going to agree on this right?” he wi say right” Ain a defiant mannerB In fact me and you can sit here arguing about this for @ weeks and we wi sti not agree right?” he wi again respond with right” 5ut you know something..I ove that” This is the point where you wi begin to hook her in %on/t you )ust hate it when peope agree for the sake of agreeing? &ou/re ike me, you All Rights Reserved Kezia Noble !"#" $ www.kezia%noble.com
stick to what you beieve in no matter what..I ike that” This is the point where she wi ook down and ook back up and smie and respond with &es..Its true” Here you woud have diffused the situation and at the same time you are conveying the message that athough you both might disagree on the surface, you both 3'11*3T on a much deeper eve. &ou are both strong-minded peope, you are both peope who stick to what you beieve in. There is something that I earned from a natura recenty. He tod me that whenever he and his ‘current/ girfriends argue, he stops her and aughs and then says something very simiar to the ‘diffusion techni
"emember, chaenging a woman wi 1'T decrease your chances of success, *$*3I#88& if you know how to deiver the ‘diffusion techni
1ote2 a ot of my students now $("$'*7(88& chaenge the gir in order to use the diffusion techni
%on/t be afraid of energy, )ust earn how to moud that energy in to se+ua energy.
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