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INTRODUCTION

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GUIDELINES

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CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING

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KNOW WHEN TO STOP

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NO DOUBLE TEXTS

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VARY RESPONSE TIMES

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DON’T ALWAYS RESPOND

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PRACTICE INDIFFERENCE

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AVOID BORING TOPICS

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STOP TRYING

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EMOJIS

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ROAD MAP

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COLD OPENERS

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OPENERS

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PUSH

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PULL

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BAITING

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BARRIERS

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TEASING

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ONE WORD REPLIES

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BEING A CHALLENGE

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VULNERABILITY

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FUTURE PROJECTION

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ASKING HER OUT

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HANDLING TESTS

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DEALING WITH FLAKES

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NON RESPONDERS

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INTRODUCTION Texting often gets dismissed within the pickup community and rightly so. If you don’t know what you’re doing it’s far easier to destroy attraction than it is to build it, however it doesn’t have to be. When applied correctly texting bridges the crucial gap between getting her number and getting her to see you, if you don’t have the texting fundamentals down you’re going to miss out on a lot of opportunities. If you’re new to pick up, some of the advice and texts I propose in this book may seem counter intuitive, illogical and maybe even risky but I want you to keep an open mind here. Growing up the best piece of advice I got about women was “whatever you think you should do, do the opposite”. I can’t remember who said it but I do remember how powerful the effect was on me and how much it improved my game. I learnt quickly how male and female brains are wired differently and what we as males think should work often doesn’t and what we think shouldn’t work often does. The same concept applies when texting women.

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GUIDELINES CONTEXT IS EVERYTHING Do not stack the texts provided here one after the other machine gun style in hope of something sticking because that’s not going to work. You need to come across as natural as possible and not sound like a copying and pasting robot. Know that it’s not only what you say that matters but also the context in which you say it in. I will explain what the correct context is to use with each technique so you know exactly how and when to use them.

KNOW WHEN TO STOP Avoid texting her too much, especially in the beginning. Your attention should be earned gradually over time and not given automatically. Find the right balance between texting them enough to create intrigue and then leaving them wanting more.

NO DOUBLE TEXTS If she hasn’t replied to one of your texts do not fall into the trap of texting her back the same day. Do not begin to doubt 16


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what you wrote. Your mindset should be that she is testing your neediness so don’t give her a reason to lose attraction. If she still hasn’t responded after at least 2 days, open her again.

VARY RESPONSE TIMES Don’t be predictable, vary your response times. Sometimes it’s fine to text back immediately, though if you’re busy then make her wait. The general guide is to mix it up so she that doesn’t know when to expect your response. This rule does not apply if you’re in the middle of a conversation where not responding would destroy the momentum of it or if you’re arranging time dependant logistics so gauge it accordingly. Don’t overthink it when it comes to how long you should wait before texting her for the first time, though it’s better not to wait any longer than a day so that the interaction is still fresh in her mind.

DON’T ALWAYS RESPOND Do not respond to every text. This may seem hard at first and counterintuitive though you will quickly begin to realise how effective it can be. It will also give her space to miss you.

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The best time to leave her hanging is when she asks you a question and not during a lull in the conversation because now she’s expecting a response and not just assuming that the conversation ended naturally. This makes your nonresponse much more powerful. Text back in 1-2 days picking up where the conversation left off like nothing happened. Do not apologise for or explain your absence.

PRACTICE INDIFFERENCE Indifference is attractive. Be completely indifferent to all responses and outcomes. Never show anger over text or any strong emotion for that matter. Showing that kind of response means you’re attached to the outcome and that you think your life would somehow be better with her in it. Your mindset should be that her responses don’t affect you because you’re fine either way. Also avoid sending overly serious texts, texting should be fun and lighthearted so try to keep it that way.

AVOID BORING TOPICS If it’s not interesting then you shouldn’t be talking about it. Don’t try to get to know her over text and avoid asking facts about her or what she’s doing (save those for in person). Topics to avoid include work, news, personal facts etc. You won’t be able to completely avoid some of these topics entirely and that’s okay just don’t make them the focus of the conversation or go out of your way to introduce them. 18


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STOP TRYING A conversation should flow naturally with a similar amount of effort from both sides. If you look at your recent texts and see that you’re the one asking all the questions and doing most of the talking then you need to take a step back and assess what you’re doing. Try to avoid sending long texts, most of the examples I provide here are one sentence or less (usually around 5-10 words is more than enough).

EMOJIS The use of emoji’s will allow you to get away with much more than you usually could and can be the difference between texting something that could possibly offend her and texting something that will make her laugh. Without the presence of vocal tonality and facial expressions, texts can be taken in different ways (especially if she doesn’t fully understand your personality yet) so it’s important to use emojis to show that you aren't taking it too seriously. They will also allow you to replace overused acronyms though remember to avoid overdoing it and keep it simple, that means no girly hearts or kiss emojis.

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ROAD MAP This goal of this book is to effectively take you from point A (sending your opening text) to point B (getting her eager to see you) with as little resistance and as much compliance as possible. Everything technique in between is designed to help get you there faster and to overcome any obstacles that you may face along the way. You don’t need to follow every technique I propose here, in fact I recommend that you don’t. It’s not about copying and pasting the perfect sequence of texts and expecting her to magically fall in love with you. Different techniques are designed to work on different girls for different situations. The 3 basic interactions can be placed into 3 categories engaged, neutral and disengaged. Whether she is really into you (engaged), indifferent about you (neutral) or not into you at all (disengaged), each case is different and requires different techniques. I have colour coded each category to align with each text so you know exactly what kind of texts to use on what girl and what texts to avoid. There’s no one size fits all approach here so you should always be assessing the situation and responding © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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accordingly. When assessing her interest level you do not need to overanalyse and categorise each text she sends but rather the overall tone of the interaction and the vibe she’s giving you. Engaged (GREEN) • • • • • •

Prompt replies Lengthy replies Initiates conversation Asks questions Conversationally invested Frequent use of emoticons and LOL’s

Disengaged (RED) • • • • •

Slow replies Short replies Doesn’t initiate conversation Doesn’t ask questions Conversationally non-invested

Neutral (YELLOW) • A varying combination of disengaged and engaged Remember that these can change over time as the interaction progresses, so if she starts out as disengaged or neutral then your goal is to get her engaged as much as © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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possible prior to asking her out as this yields a much higher probability of her actually wanting to. If she’s already highly engaged then less is more, you can skip a lot of the attraction building techniques I propose and focus more on building comfort.


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COLD OPENERS Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

Cold openers are for girls whose numbers you just got. So what goes into a creating a first text that sets you apart and makes her eager to text you back? Three things: it needs to be engaging, playful and give her a reason for her to respond.

- By acknowledging and making fun of their fears in a humorous way you’re putting them at ease and demonstrating social acuity.


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- If you met her the night prior. This can be effective whether you made out with her or not, either way works. The point is that you don’t remember.

- Send shortly after talking to her so she knows you’re referring to yourself.

- Effective if the initial interaction was strong and you can sense that she is very interested.

- Callback something you remember about her during the conversation that can be used against her.


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OPENERS Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

Openers are used to initiate a conversation with those you’ve already texted before. The same principles we used to create cold openers apply (playful and engaging), however we can now assume familiarity to establish the foundation of the interaction. Avoid asking how their day was or what they are up to. This is value taking, forcing them to provide a response in order to entertain you and putting the conversational burden on them. It’s boring, it’s also what everyone else does and it’s not going to set you apart. A better way to open is to provide a playful and engaging comment, doing this alone sets you apart from most of the other guys she is probably already texting and it leads to a more stimulating conversation for the both of you.


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- If you already have a solid interaction with the girl and she’s completely engaged.

- Using humour to let her know you’re thinking about her allows you to not appear non needy. Use on party girls.

- You can get away with setting frames like these if you do them in an obviously humorous way. She knows you’re joking, however on a subconscious level the frame of you being higher value than her is still set.

- She won’t know whether you were reminded because she looked similar to her or because of the way she stared at you. It also gives you pre-selection by letting her know other girls who look like her are interested in you.


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PUSH Use on • Neutral • Disengaged

It’s important to remember that the goal here is not to insult her, it’s to push her away and then pull her back in once she’s earned it. This is a powerful way to create an element of drama which helps solidify the attraction. Push/pull can be a double edged sword so if she is already really into you (engaged) then there’s no reason to use it on her. However if you can sense that she’s disengaged or neutral about you then use it. You need a reason to use push, don’t try to force it into the conversation, let it happen naturally as these texts could seem misplaced if they’re used out of context. The right time to use them will be when she says something that, 1) is negative about you or you can misinterpret as negative, 2) you don't like or 3) you don’t agree with. Whether you actually care about it or not doesn’t matter, it will still give you right context for your text to make sense and have the right effect.


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Also remember to use emoji’s here wherever you deem necessary to soften the impact and to let her know that you’re not taking it too seriously.

- Even though you’re clearly joking this creates the frame that you have all the power (and sexual power) in the relationship.

- You’re pushing them away in a way that frames it as negative however you’re doing it in a way that makes it appealing.


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PULL Use on • Engaged • Neutral

Women hate getting mixed messages and that’s why push/ pull is such a great technique. Push/pull works better when it is used within the context of the same conversation, though these can still be used on their own to build comfort if she’s already somewhat engaged. These texts are about finding the right balance between showing interest but not showing too much interest to appear desperate. It’s best to avoid using over the top, generic compliments as they don’t translate well over text and may make you look needy. Like with push texts, you also need a reason to use pull. Instead of asking a qualifying question such as “are you adventurous?”, allow her to qualify herself on her own naturally. Use them after she qualifies herself, says or does something you like or when you’re connecting on some level. It doesn’t matter what the reason is but just make sure there is a reason as she needs to feel like she has done © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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something to earn it otherwise it wont have the desired effect.


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- Use if you haven’t had sex with her yet. Also by assuming the sex is going to be bad will likely make her want to challenge your assumption.


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BAITING Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

The goal with baiting is to build intrigue and investment into the conversation. Also if you feel like you’re putting more effort into the interaction than she is then baiting can be a great way to get her to reciprocate. Baiting is accomplished by using vague or incomplete statements that pique her curiosity and prompt follow up questions. A good baiting statement should be light hearted, playful, and ambiguous.

- You need the right context to use this text. The right context is if she sends you a picture or you’re in the middle of talking about something related. With this text she’s going to wonder what you think the first most attractive thing about her is so have something prepared.


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- Obviously do not use if she’s even slightly overweight. When she asks what you mean, explain that overweight girls usually have the best personalities. Follow up with “did you used to be a fat kid in school?”. This can be stacked with the bait above if you said your favourite thing about her was her personality.

- Have a reason prepared as to why this character reminds you of her.


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BARRIERS Use on • Neutral

Dealing with barriers and overcoming them are the key ingredient in every love story. Just think of the most popular romance movies or fairytales (The Titanic, The Notebook, Cindarella) and you will begin to see a familiar pattern: two people become involved with each other but then are torn apart by various reasons, though through the power of love they are able to overcome them to create an even stronger bond than they had before and live happily ever after. Creating barriers are an effective way to allow you both to work towards overcoming them together, creating a stronger bond in the process.


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Note: This text is context dependant so make sure to only use it once she has done something to ‘earn’ it

- This text combines several techniques (baiting, push/pull, barriers and vulnerability) to create an incredibly powerful effect. “This is weird” translates to you not being used to whatever you’re feeling towards her, implying that she is having a different effect on you. You’re creating a barrier by telling her that you have a rule that she is in the process of breaking because she is winning you over. You’re framing yourself as the ‘forbidden fruit’ by telling her not to be so adorable, though it’s only going to make her want to try even harder and make you more enticing.


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TEASING Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

Teasing is also known as flirting. To tease effectively be witty not insulting. Be sure that you have a good read on her and remember to deliver it with a playful tone (use emojis). If she’s fun she will play along. Teasing a girl can help to create a fun, emotionally stimulating and challenging interaction while at the same time as it will demonstrate that you are a confident, high status with a good sense of humour since men of low status wouldn’t dare to make fun of a girl, they would be too afraid of offending her which would lead to rejection (you don’t care about rejection).

- This DHV’s by implying you’re experienced with ‘hot girls’ and challenges her sexually. © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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- Get her to open up about herself more by challenging her.

- If she asks you a lot of boring questions.

- Use if she says she misses you.

- If she says something unusual.


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ONE WORD REPLIES Use on • Neutral • Disengaged

A common mistake made by guys just learning text game is that they will try too hard and set out to make ever text clever. They’re afraid to either seem boring or to let the conversation die out naturally. It’s another form of neediness and women can sense it. By sending her a one word reply you’re giving her nothing to reply to and showing her that you don’t care if the conversation dies, in fact you’re prompting it to end. This is also a great way to test her level of interest because if she responds with anything then it’s a clear sign that she’s interested and wants to keep the conversation alive. If she doesn’t respond then you can send another text later, since you don’t give her anything to respond to in the first place it doesn’t count as a needy double text.


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BEING A CHALLENGE Use on • Neutral • Disengaged

Every now and then get her to question whether you’re actually interested in her or not. The difference between these texts and push texts (indicators of disinterest) are that the latter are used in response to when she says or does something that can be perceived as negative. However these are used in response to when she says or does something that can be perceived as positive. The difference is subtle yet the implications are quite significant. Here we’re intentionally breaking rapport right after she tries to build it. When she states interest, misinterpret or frame it so that it seems like she is the one pursuing you. To avoid coming across as too cocky use emojis to let her know you’re being playful and remember to not over do it by being too much of a challenge, you need to be somewhat attainable still.


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VULNERABILITY Use on • Engaged

A common texting mistake made by guys is that they try to brag to make themselves sound cool. It doesn’t work, in reality it’s just another form of neediness that you should avoid entirely. Instead of bragging do the opposite and reveal something completely dorky or a weakness about yourself. Not only does this show that you’re not trying to impress her or care for her approval, it makes you seem more relatable and puts her guard down. You’re opening up to her by showing her a glimpse of vulnerability which is a powerful way to create a deeper connection which builds comfort. Though all of these concepts apply in person, the very nature of text messages mean that everything should be kept fun and light hearted…you can’t exactly text her about that traumatic childhood experience you had when you were 9 so make sure you still keep your messages light and combine them with humour.


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FUTURE PROJECTION Use on • Engaged

Why can a woman have a bad dream about her partner, wake up to realise it was only a dream and yet still be mad at him? Often times dreams have an emotional impact on people because their emotions can’t determine what’s real and what isn’t. Whether it actually happened or not doesn’t matter because they still experienced it emotionally. Likewise, if you can get a girl to associate imaginary experiences with you they will be just as powerful as real ones. They also mentally prepare her for spending time with you since she’s already envisioning it in her mind.


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ASKING HER OUT Use on • Engaged

If she’s not already completely engaged, skip this section, go back and cycle through the techniques again until she is. Hopefully by now you have followed all the steps outlined in this book and she’s completely engaged. She’s now eager to see you and waiting for you to ask her out. As previously mentioned, do not use these texts to start off a conversation. Wait until you’re already in the middle of a good conversation and then ask her out in a completely casual way like it’s almost an afterthought. This makes it seem more casual and spontaneous. The first date should be low commitment. In fact, you shouldn't even call it a ‘date’.

- By asking her out using the condition above (that she has to bring you a present), you’re creating the assumption © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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that she’s already agreeing to see you and not only that but you expect to get a present out of it. Instead of framing it as a question “Do you want to do something on Tuesday?”, you’re avoiding the question entirely, making her mind up for her and putting her focus on bringing you a present.

- If it’s at night you can subtlety challenge her by using the condition “if it’s not past your bedtime”.

- By telling her that she’s boring you at the start will make her more likely to agree on a spontaneous get together to challenge your assumption. Since it’s a personality test she’ll probably pick bubble tea to further challenge it. Also again, you’re not asking her to see you because you’re already assuming she’s going to say yes, instead you’re asking her to pick the drink.


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- Use if she has shown resistance. The “starting to forget what you look like” works on a psychological level by activating her fear of loss. Even if she’s completely neutral about you, no one wants to be forgotten. It also allows you to appear non-needy (since you can’t remember what she looks like) while still pursuing her.

- Using lyrics are a risk free way to send overtly sexual texts. Anything from Drake will work.

- Using role reversals and conditions to frame her as being the sexual aggressor.


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HANDLING TESTS Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

If you’re following this guide correctly you will get tested. This is a good sign, it means she likes you enough to see if you’re worth testing in the first place. Understand that she has to do this in order to filter out any low value, insecure men. If you get tested do not get caught up in the conversation by responding to it logically or emotionally, don’t try to explain yourself or back track in any way, shape or form. When you show her that you don’t need her approval, her attraction for you increases ten fold. In order to pass these tests you must be completely nonreactive in every way. Ignore whatever she said and instead step back and comment on the overall situation. Keep your responses low investment, brief and disarming. Sometimes the best response is no response. If she is seeking a reaction of some sort from you then not responding may be the best option. Often times she will end up texting you again, diffusing the situation on her own. © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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- The Neil DeGrasse Tyson meme is perfect for this. By calling her out as a badass you’re disarming her with humour and sarcasm. Also copying and pasting a meme as a response is about as low investment as it gets.

- Letting her know you think it’s cute when she’s mad will completely disarm her attempt to be mad.

- Yes I know this is completely illogical and that’s the point.


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DEALING WITH FLAKES Use on • Engaged • Neutral • Disengaged

How you handle the flake can determine whether you see her again or not. The worst thing you can do is show any sign of emotion about it. In fact, flakes are a great opportunity to show your indifference to the outcome so use them to your advantage. If she flakes on you and doesn’t offer an alternative time, do not try to get her to reschedule on the same day. Play it off like it’s no big deal and then go back to rebuilding attraction and comfort before asking her out again.

- If she hasn’t responded and you can tell she’s going to flake, cancel on her first. This lets her know that you’re going out no matter what and that you have other options. © 2015 Godmode Pickup

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It also shows her that you’re not mad by suggesting you’ll make plans later next week.

- If she hasn’t responded and you want to confirm the date without appearing needy a good way to do it is to diffuse the situation with sarcastic humour.

- By casually implying you’ll start cheating on her you can seed the idea that you aren’t going to wait around for her.


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NON RESPONDERS Sometimes numbers go cold and stop responding entirely. There are many possibilities that may have caused her to stop responding so it’s important not to get too caught up in trying to analyse why. If you have sent multiple texts days apart and she hasn’t responded still then wait a week and follow up with a ‘last resort’ text. A lot of the time they won’t work, though it’s useful for the odd occasion it will. The time/ reward ratio is sufficient enough to make it a part of your text game arsenal. The goal of the last resort text is to simply reignite the intrigue she presumably felt for you at some point in order to compel her to respond. If you don’t get a response to the first one, wait a week before sending the next one and so on. If you have cycled through all three and there’s still no response, move on.


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Use this as your ‘last’ last resort text. This text works on three levels: 1) Non-neediness - You’ve forgotten her number. 2) Abundance - You know 2 other girls with her name, she’s not special. 3) Intrigue - She will want to know which one you think she is. If she asks, don’t tell her which one she is, instead focus on trying to rebuild attraction.


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