Fl i r t Mas ter ter y How to Flirt and Create Hypnotic Conversations with Women
By Steve Scott
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Table Ta ble of Cont onteents Disclaimer ........................................... ..................... ............................................ ............................................ ........................... ..... 6 Part 11 - Introducing ‘Flirt Mastery’ Ma stery’ ........................................... ..................... .............................. ........ 7
Introduction........................................................................................... 8 What is Flirting? ......................................... ................... ............................................ .......................................... .................... 9 The Right (and Wrong) Way to Flirt ......................................... ................... ............................... ......... 11 5 Shocking Myths About Women.......................................... .................... ................................... ............. 13 How Each Gender Flirts ............................ ...... ............................................ ......................................... ................... 25 Sexual Tension and Sexual Chemistry.......................................... .................... ............................ ...... 28 Part 22 - The “Better Prospect” Prosp ect” Principles ........................................ ................... ..................... 34
Your Attitude ............................................................. ....................................... ........................................... ......................... .... 35 The “Better Prospect” Principles .................................................. ............................. ........................... ...... 36 Part 3- How to Start a Conversation with a Woman ..................... .................... . 85
Introduction......................................................................................... 86 3 Conversation Starters ............................................ ...................... ............................................ ........................... ..... 87 Approach with Intent to Flirt .................................. ............ ............................................ ............................ ...... 96 Part 4- Flirty, Non-Verbal Communication ................................... ....................... ............ 99
Strong Body Language .................................................. ............................. ........................................ ................... 100 Reading HER Body Language .......................................... .................... ...................................... ................ 109 4 Ways Her Eyes Show Sh ow Her Interest ........................................... ...................... ........................... ...... 113 Touching a Woman.......................................... .................... ............................................ ................................. ........... 117 Touching To Flirt .......................................... .................... ............................................ .................................... .............. 120 Part 55 - Conversation 101 ........................................... ..................... ........................................... ..................... 125
Introduction to Conversations ......................................... ................... ........................................ .................. 126 3
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A.B.F. (Always Be Flirting) ......................... ... ............................................ .................................... .............. 127 Conversation Outcomes ............................................ ...................... ............................................ ........................ .. 128 What NOT to Do During a Conversation .......................... .... ..................................... ............... 131 9 Rules for a Great Conversation ........................................... ..................... ................................. ........... 138 Humor and Teasing............................................ ...................... ............................................ ............................... ......... 147 How to Blend Teasing and Humor ............................. ....... ............................................ ...................... 153 Conversation Considerations ......................................................... ................................... ......................... ... 157 Specific Conversation Tactics......................................... ................... ........................................ .................. 162 Mastering Your Conversation Skills ......................................... .................... ............................. ........ 175 Conversation Obstacles......................................... ................... ............................................ ............................ ...... 179 Part 6- Flirt through Storytelling Story telling .................................................. ....................................... ........... 189
Introduction to Storytelling .......................................... .................... ........................................... ..................... 190 Why Women Love Stories .......................................... .................... ............................................ ...................... 192 Crafting Your Stories ........................................... ..................... ............................................ ............................. ....... 195 Telling Your Stories...................................... Stories................ ............................................ .................................... .............. 204 Practicing Your Stories ............................................ ...................... ............................................ ......................... ... 208 Part 7- The Push & Pull of Sexual Tension .................................. ................................ .. 211
What is Push & Pull? ........................................... ..................... ............................................ ............................. ....... 212 #1- The Frame Stealer .......................................... .................... ............................................ ............................. ....... 217 #2- The Rapport Breaker ....................................................... ................................. ................................. ........... 220 #3- The Accuse Her ............................................................ ...................................... .................................... .............. 224 #4- The Role Player .......................................... ..................... ........................................... ................................ .......... 227 Sending Mixed Signals Is A GOOD Thing ....................................... .................... ................... 230 Advanced Push/Pull Tactics ........................................... ..................... ........................................ .................. 232 Why (and How) Women Test Guys Gu ys........................................... ..................... ............................. ....... 237 Ways Women Test You ............................................ ...................... ............................................ ........................ .. 242 How to Handle Her Tests......................................... ................... ............................................ ......................... ... 246
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5 Tests to Give Women ........................................... ..................... ............................................ ......................... ... 249 Always Be Testing Her ......................................... ................... ............................................ ............................ ...... 253 How to Qualify Women ........................................... ..................... ............................................ ......................... ... 256 Using Commitment Commitment and Consistency ........................................... ..................... ........................... ..... 260 Part 8-The Fun, Flirty Guy ......................................... ................... ......................................... ................... 263
Being the Fun, Flirty Guy .......................................... ..................... ........................................... ........................ 264 Showing a Skill ......................................... .................... ........................................... ........................................ .................. 265 Cold Reading For Flirting .......................................... ..................... ........................................... ........................ 268 Flirty Games ................................................. ........................... ............................................ .................................... .............. 273 Part 9- The Next Step ........................................... ..................... ............................................ .......................... .... 281
Knowing When She’s She’ s Interest .......................................... .................... ...................................... ................ 282 Showing Your Interest ............................................ ...................... ............................................ .......................... .... 297 Rapport: Building That ‘Special Connection’................................... ..................... .............. 302 The Timeline of o f Rapport......................................... ................... ............................................ .......................... .... 312 The Next Step… ........................................... ..................... ............................................ .................................... .............. 315 Part 10- Conclusion ........................................................................ 316
Learn From Your Experiences ........................................... ..................... ..................................... ............... 317 The Importance of Calibration ........................................... ..................... ..................................... ............... 320 Final Thoughts… ......................................................... ................................... ........................................... ..................... 323
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1 Intr ntrodu oducin cingg ‘Fli ‘Flirt rt Ma Mastery’
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Introduction Welcome! nd
I’d like to thank you for your wise decision to purchase the 2 edition of the Flirt Mastery system. system. In this course you’re you’re going to find a resource that’ll teach you the subtle art of flirting. As you’ve probably experienced, it’s sometimes hard to create attraction with the women women you meet. meet. Being able to flirt will increase increase your chances of success. It’s a pretty powerful sensation to be b e able to walk up to any woman and know can create attraction. attraction. And flirting is what makes makes it know you can possible. After reading this book, and completing the simple exercises, you’ll be able to create almost instant attraction with the th e women you’re meeting. Now to be honest, I’m not one for wasting wasting time on an over-elaborate introduction. So let’s jump right right into it…
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What is Flirting? What is flirting?
You might think this is a simple question to answer. After all, we’ve all done it (or tried to, at least.) The problem is many guys think they’re flirting---when in fact they’re not. The truth is flirting is a skill that most women possess and most men don’t. Complimenting women, spouting off cheesy pick-up lines, and bragging about accomplishments are the things that most guys do when trying to flirt. But as you probably know these are the worst ways to flirt f lirt with a girl. So what’s the answer? In short, flirting is nothing more than a mating ritual.
It’s similar to what goes on in the animal an imal kingdom. Birds sing songs. Peacocks display stylish feathers. And apes beat their chests. These are all mating rituals in the animal kingdom.
To put it differently, flirting is our way to attract a mate. While the mating ritual is different for each species, the goal behind them is not. For humans, flirting involves the verbal and nonverbal cues we use to attract a potential mate.
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As men, we take specific actions to impress the female of our o ur choice: humor; intelligence; material wealth; social status; confidence co nfidence. Like the male ape beating his chest, we display displa y these qualities in the hopes they’ll make us more attractive to the opposite op posite sex. What’s interesting about flirting is it’s it’ s mostly done on an unconscious level. Think back to the animal examples mentioned mentioned earlier. Do you think any of these mating rituals are preplanned? They’re not.
These animals come come prewired to behave in this manner. manner. It’s the way they continue the life cycle. And they don’t have to think about doing it. They simply do it. Like the animal kingdom, guys don’t worry about the th e “mating ritual”. Most of us don’t care about continuing the life cycle either. Most of the time, we’ll see an attractive girl and wonder how we can have sex with her. With that said, let’s talk about the right (and wrong) way to flirt…
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(and nd Wron ong) g) The Right (a Ways to Wa t o Flirt Before we discuss how to successfully flirt, you need to consider one very important fact ---women don’t like cocky assholes. In a later section, we’re going to talk about the high status man. When reading about this attitude, you have to remember it’s a lot different than being an arrogant prick. Showing off your hot set of wheels, talking about your money, or boasting about your important job may seem like a good way to grab a girl’s attention, but they’re not. Bragging actually portrays weakness, and it’ll do you more harm than good. Bottom line---The wrong way to flirt is to brag about yourself.
Now that we’ve cleared that up, let’s talk about the right way to flirt. In essence, flirting is a subtle but fun way to show a girl you’re interested in her. Imagine the following scenario… You’re talking to a girl for the very first time. She’s cute, she seems interested in the conversation, and even better …she …she appears to be giving you ‘the eye.’ You know the best way to “get” her is to flirt. So you you try to demonstrate all the core character traits women find appealing in a guy. You tell jokes because because women like to laugh. laugh. You compliment compliment her thinking she wants a nice guy. And you ask questions because you’ve you’ve heard “chicks like to talk about themselves.”
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