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Extra Marital Affair in Astrology I was going through this article in September 2012 issue of astromindsclub.com and found it very much in depth in analysis of modern days problems due to lack of ethical and spiritual standard maintained by us. It is easy to blame a person who is at fault but have we ever wondered that our fate and planets could be behind this. Author of the original text in the magazine was trying to show what was behind actually for such condition. Extra marital relation or illicit relation has a connection in our planets and stars. topic is in the page 38-40 of the magazine.
Which Planets are behind Unfaithful Partner & Extra Marital Relation By Parama Perhaps root cause of all problem is break of trust in any relation we deal with. In case of those relation which are based on mutual trust, love & dependency on physical and mental need suffers most if any one breaks. Marriage or Live in relations are top on the list which gets affected due to this breaks. Today we will discuss a teething issue which is now a days concern for all most every other house hold. Fast life style , lack of time for each other, unsatisfied sex life coupled with tension and financial pressure makes and ideal candidate for Extra Marital Condition. But fortunately not all of them have to pass through this hale like condition, but do really suffer while other partner feels they are enjoying but in actual they are also victim of the problem. I have came across many clients from almost all walks of life who has faced this problem in last 10 years. Due to fast life style we are running after materialistic & physical pleasure demand for not required items and to achieve these we are using all means and modes which may be not be inline with ethical and moral standards.
In present days a group of person is trying to take advantage while other side is ready to give the facilities to fulfill unethical sexual desire. One is
running after another just to have physical pleasure where no mental bondage of relation is there. Love has taken a back seat and crude enjoyment physical desire is now the driver for such relation.
Right from the social networking sites to the circle of friends people are getting involved in illicit relations out side marriage. Why such thing happens? Why a person gets involved in the 1st place itself? Do planets have any influence on the same? Does the Natal Chart indicates that you are going to have a extra Marital relation?
Lets see the basic causes of extra marital relations as per Ancient Vedic Astrology way. According to this method influence of Mars, Rahu or Ketu in 4th,6th,12th house or 5th from 7th house or 5th of 7th is influenced by malefic planets or Jupiter and Venus connection in 5th of 7th House indicates that person will suffer from illicit or extramarital relation.
If 7th or 2nd lord is influenced by or viewed by Venus, or Venus is in these place or 10th lord is in 7th with Venus the person will fall in to illicit relation due to strong sexual desire. apart from that if 7th lord is connected with Rahu or Ketu then every possibility this person will fall in the trap of extra marital or illicit relation. Also review of transit of planets needs to be judged during that time for the person is extremely required for the correct prediction.
We will examine these factors from a person’s birth chart who was suffering from these problems. This person is a well placed IT professional with big organization, having a lovable wife with complete family and good fortune in terms of family wealth. There is absolutely no reason socially or financially or other wise for worry in this person’s personal or professional life. But still he is involved in such relation. See the chart below: in the magazine Lets see what are the factors made him debauch : 1. Sun and Mercury in 7th house 2. 7th lord Venus in 6th with Saturn & Jupiter
3. Ascendant lord is in 8th with Star of Mercury (18N Jyestha Nakshatra) relation with Mercury in 7th through star. 4. Rahu in 4th and connected with Aslesha has increased the effect. 5. Person’s Sun & Mercury is under influence Star of Rahu means Sun, Rahu & Mercury under Star exchange condition. 6. In addition to the above 7th house is surrounded by Saturn and Mars which is a malefic effect on its own. 7. Person was having Rahu’s Mahadasha and Mercury’s Antar Dasaha
If we deep study the Nabangsha Chart then we can find that : 1. Saturn and Venus in 7th house and Venus seen by Mars 2. 7th Lord Mars is in 4th with Rahu infected , Mars has worked like catalyst to connect Venus and Rahu, So in natal chart Venus , Rahu & Mars is connected. This indicates lack of moral and ethical character. With minimum chance he will be involved in illicit relation.
Natal chart or in birth chart person ‘s Rashi is Leo, Moon in Sun’s planet and Sun in 7th with Rahu’s Planet and Moon seen by Rahu indicates the person is short tempered, fickle minded person, can not stay in any subject for long.
This had effect on her married life as well. Hot temper was a negative factor in married life. 4th house with Rahu indicates lack of peace at homely life.
Sun & Mercury in 7th House indicates that her wife has independent opinion on life. Hence less compatibility in life with wife. Budhaditya yoga helps to take her independent decision.
Human mind is complex in nature no one knows when it will be ticked off by any word positively or negatively. We have many lacks in our duties and responsibilities but still we think we are correct. A common ally bye
no one tries to understand them. We try to see others small issues as bigger one and try to by pass our own faults. In case of this person also same has happened. He was blaming every thing on his wife and cleared of all his wrong deeds as after effect of his wife’s problem. Person’s 7th lord & 2nd lord which are at 6th house with Jupiter & Saturn so relation with wife will be quarrel sum. Saturn will give frustration in addition.
Earlier we have seen Sun & Mercury connected with Rahu’s star and in 7th house. Mars is effected by 8th lord and lord of Asc Rahu’s 9th sight. Now if we consider Stars we can see that Rahu +Mars + Venus + Jupiter connected relation has created a circumference of illicit relation.
Now Mar is in Mercury’s Star (Jyestha) , Mercury is in Rahu’s Star (Swati) and Rahu in Mercury’s Star (Aslyesha) . Venus is in Monn’s Star (Hasta) and Jupiter is in Sun’s Star (Uttar Phalguni), moon in Sun’s Star (Uttar Phalguni) So Rahu , Venus & Mars are connected through exchange of Stars relations.
The person had illicit relation earlier also but he did not confess in front of me, but I saw when he came to me it was Mercury Mahadasha. At that point of transit time 2nd house of the native (Taurus) is filled with Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter & Ketu together. In opposite Rahu was having direct sight on that group of planets. Mas was on Leo in the transit that is Birth Rashi or Zodiac. Mars was giving 4th sight to Rahu in Scorpio. So Rahu as catalyst making connection between planets in Taurus and Mars indirectly.
This kind of planet constellation indicates person is having illicit physical relation at that point of time with out mental obligation in natal chart similar formation observed as like in transit.
After discussion I found that this to be true. He was having a relation with a lady apart from his wife just to fulfill his sexual physical need and do not have any intention to make it a marriage, just the lust for enjoyment. He
has no burden on his shoulder for this as if this has been planned by God and hence he has no fault on that part. How much debouch a person can be !!! He is blaming God for his misdeeds and unethical act.
So after this analysis I have come to the conclusions that our life is controlled by our birth chart planetary position. So we must review our horoscope with experts to check if any kind of this planetary connections are there then we must be extremely cautious to avoid such temporary enjoyment as this only gives you momentary enjoyment with permanent damage to relations. Which can not be fixed by any means. You can not harm your partners feelings and trust just because of your own illicit relation. This could be a medically unhealthy to as chance of STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) due to multiple sex partner is paramount. This kind of relation breaks the family and makes child orphan despite of they had every right to live a happy life . So I suggest for god sake ask pardon to god and your partner and live a happy life.
