eBook KeysTo Reltaionship Beyond Boundaries

Will our programming stand the test of time in every situation so we can live Happily Ever After?

Keys to Relationship Beyond Boundaries http://www.relationshipbeyondboundaries.com

By Dawn Mazur

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Table of Contents Acknowledgements

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The Basics - Before Beginning

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Your Relationship With You

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Changing Your Story

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Changing Your Love Relationships

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Tools

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The Magical Companion Called Your Body

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Going Further & Deeper

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Relationship Beyond Boundaries is an Energy Exchange

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The Clearing Statement:

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Glossary

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Table of Contents Acknowledgements

3

The Basics - Before Beginning

4

Your Relationship With You

6

Changing Your Story

12

Changing Your Love Relationships

23

Tools

25

The Magical Companion Called Your Body

27

Going Further & Deeper

31

Relationship Beyond Boundaries is an Energy Exchange

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Glossary

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Acknowledgements

Because I have been working with healing and energy flows for much of my adult life I have developed many techniques of my own. I have spent over 2 decades searching for ever better questions to unlock negative programming and unlock our full potential. I have studied with literally hundreds of teachers and workshop leaders. This book, and the audios accompanying it, are a compilation of what worked best for my clients and me in my path p ath of inquiry.

During the years when inquiry was my path towards inner freedom, remaining in the question was the key. key. After writing this book in 2009, I finally arrived in my heart and even the path of inquiry was put to rest. I would like to acknowledge the teachers I worked with along the way who helped me learn deep inquiry; Adyshanti of Open Gate Sangha, Lester Levenson of the Sedona Method, and Gary Douglas of Access Consciousness. Their questioning methods have deeply influenced me and are woven into this book, my life, and even my travels travels at night. Without them, the inner babble of my bio feedback system would still be bothering me. There were many other teachers along the way who tried to help me let go of my story story and my constant inner mind chatter. chatter. Some of their methods were helpful for a time and are woven into methods I use to help clients release negative programming. I am grateful to all of these teachers and leaders and I wish them all well. My greatest wish is that all of us find our way to freedom, and ever expanding conscious awareness.

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The Basics - Before Beginning Caution: The material in this book will change your life! If you do NOT want change do not start this book! If you allow it to, this book, along with the audio recordings that accompany it, will allow your nervous system to restructure. The audio recordings are available for FREE download at http://www.relationshipbeyondboundaries.com . The end result of this will be delightful because you will be able to respond to life as it is presented, without the old baggage of automatic negative programming. To allow the deepest change, it is suggested you pick a verbal release that resonates for you and say it 30 times daily for 30 days. Suggested releases are inside the black boxes throughout the book. You can do this with any release in this program that seems to resonate with you. Use more than one daily if you like (I do). As you use these releases you will be erasing ever deeper strata of unconscious programming . Releases do not re-program you, they allow you to begin to function appropriately in the moment, without the underlying influence of negative programming which can poison your life. You DO NOT have to understand the clearing statement portion of the release in order for it to work! However, if youʼd like to understand it go to ʻClearing Statementʼ on page 34. In the tapes and this e-book a technique I refer to as BBR is taught and used. At the time of this work I was not allowed to state where this technique came from... please note that the origin of this is TAT and if you are intrigued by it you can go much deeper into TAT work. Doing the BBR release technique daily on a topic youʼd like to change is also recommended. Please do NOT do a BBR technique more than 3 times daily, as this can cause so much change that you might become uncomfortable. In order to support your body during this change please allow yourself to have extra salt, sugar, and water. • Because the nervous system relies on blood glucose as its major source of nutrition it will use massive amounts of sugar as it is restructuring. Without enough blood sugar your body will put you to sleep during restructuring. Consider allowing yourself to drop your limitations on sugar intake for a few days after each audio session and after spending time reading this book when the need for fuel to allow the body to change is at its highest. The best sugars are long chain poly-peptides... you can obtain these through garden produce that is picked ripe and eaten within a few hours. In our modern society with its grocery stores, this may not be possible. A really good alternative is PXP. If you would like to support your body you can learn about it at http://www.youngcells.com •

Salty foods are a good idea during these times as well, let your body be your guide. High quality salts that contain minerals such as himalayan salt are recommended

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The need for fresh water may increase during these times as well.

What energy, space and consciousness can you and your body be to allow change, restructuring, and the techniques in this program to be easy, joyful, and simple? Everything that is, will you now uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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The clearing in the box above is an example of the clearing statements found throughout the book. This one does not have to be said 30 times per day for 30 days to work. I suggest you say it a one to three times NOW before you begin so that resistance to this work is eliminated.

You DO NOT need to understand the clearing statements for them to work!

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Your Relationship With You In conventional terms, success in relationship often means you get married, you have children, and you keep that marriage together until death do you part. My point of view is different; I believe the most important part of a successful relationship is to have true intimacy with you. If you have that, you can be alone and be happy… and you will not judge yourself as a spinster, a bachelor, a gay person, or married. My point of view is that only when you have intimacy with yourself can you create a truly great relationship with another. My view is that when you are in full and total acceptance of yourself, everyone around you reflects this back at you.

In this discussion I would like to look at the __ elements of creating a great relationship with yourself. What would it take for you to perceive all the possibilities of relationship, not the limitations? • • • •

What would it take for you to stop judging yourself and those you ʼre in relationship with? What would it take to recognize you have a different choice? What would it take for you to feel expansive both in and out of relationship? Is relationship what you really want?

Personally, relationship is not a goal for me, consciousness and communion is. The communion Iʼm speaking of is being in communion with all things, but most importantly, communion with yourself and your own body. And I have discovered, this communion is not possible without conscious awareness. And it is not possible if you have no idea who you really are. • • • • •

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What if you are an expansive being that is pure potential and possibility, able to be and do anything? What if you do not exist as an individuated you until you make a choice? Could it be that your choices define you? Until you choose to be something in particular, are you all things and all possibilities? Close your eyes and try to see where your edges are. How big are you? Can you occupy and even go beyond the earth . . . the solar system . . . the galaxy . . . the universe . . ? Is it possible for you to pinpoint your size exactly? How old are you? What sex are you? Do you find you are infinite beyond time, space and matter? What would a relationship beyond boundaries and into communion with all things look like?

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Is embodiment here on planet earth just about your body? Is your body the sensory organ for you to experience your larger body here? Can you feel the moist green leaves . . . the walls of the house sheltering you . . . the earthworms in the moist soil outside?

As you ask yourself these questions be aware that you know that your body includes all of this and more. Is the first step towards communion to know at least that you are infinite and that your body is far more than is mentioned or discussed in this reality? Have you ever felt your cares and tension melt away as you walked in the deep woods, on a sandy ocean beach, or beside a laughing stream? In nature every living thing is in communion with all around it, and when you are there, that includes you. Can you imagine a tree criticizing it ʼs leaves or you? The natural world simply accepts all living things and is in total communion with itself.

Human Relationships…. Why is it so different with people and the human world? Is it possible there is something in the human world we are refusing to be aware of? Is there something going on that we are just not quite conscious of? Well, for one thing, are all other humans really like you? Are they all the same species? Do they desire communion with all things or are they interested in something else? Does this apparent difference result from the majority of the population being in a comatose, unawakened, or zombie-like state. In this state, the sleep walkers are so totally unlike you that they act like a different species. Just like a caterpillar does not act or appear like a butterfly. Does this sleep walking state make them totally unlike you? It is really important to just see that the majority of those on the planet are so unlike you that they behave as though they are a different species from you. For the purposes of this book I am simply going to call the ʻothersʼ . . . humans. Here are some questions to ask yourself: • • • • • • • • • •

Do you enjoy being joyful, peaceful, expansive, and creative? Have you ever known someone who enjoys trauma, drama, rage and blaming others? Are you an infinite being that is both timeless and dimensionless? Have you ever known someone who definitely knows they have only one life with a limited time line? Do you figure things out laboriously in a linear fashion, or do you just suddenly know things? Have you ever known someone that can only discover an answer by laboriously thinking about it? Do you judge yourself non-stop? Do you know someone who firmly believes they are truly right and judges everyone around them? Do you apologize to the chair if you accidentally kick its ʼ leg or take extra care not to disturb a sleeping cat? Do you know someone who delights in destroying things and in controlling everything around them?

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Do you enjoy being expansive, creating change and fresh new ideas? Do you usually judge yourself non-stop and know you exist beyond the constraints of time, matter, dimensions, and reality? Are you content living in one place all your life, keeping the same job, judging everything around you, controlling everything and everyone by disempowering them, and in non- stop consumerism?

Communion with You It doesnʼt really matter why others are so different from you…. BUT it is REALLY important that you STOP pretending that you are not different from them. Being in relationship to yourself only becomes an expansive sense of communion when you are aware of who and what you are. And being in relationship with another human can only expand into communion when you are willing to see them as they are, not as you are pretending they are. What energy, space, and consciousness are you choosing, that you really could be refusing, that manifests as you being average, normal, and just like everyone else? Everything that is will you now utterly destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What energy space and consciousness can you be to blend in and be as normal, average, and invisible as you truly be? Everything that is will you now utterly destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What energy space and consciousness can you be that would allow you to be as expansive, creative, and delightfully different and unique as you truly be? Everything that does not allow that to show up will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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You are not Crazy… you are incredibly psychic It is really important to know that you are incredibly psychic and telepathic. Because of this talent and ability you are constantly aware of the heaviness and judgment created by the humans around you. In fact, you can never get away from being aware of the anger, fear, hate, grief, and judgment because it is all around you like a thick soup. The heavy emotions and judgments are sent out as electromagnetic packets that constantly bombard us in this reality and can even be measured by quantum computerized devices copyright 2009

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such as the SCIO. Because of this, many of us begin to believe the lie that we are the source of the grief, fear, depression, hatred, and judgment we always experience. The bigger your gifts are as a psychic and telepath, the more sensitively you have to these frequencies. This is a very useful talent and ability. It can save you from making bad choices in friends, investments, jobs or living choices which are not good for you. In this reality it is widely believed that this talent and ability is rare and unusual. Is this true? I have never met a multi-dimensional being that does not have it. However, I have met many who are in denial about it or who are repressing it. This discussion is very important because without being aware of this, your chance at an expansive relationship in this reality is doomed. When you are not receiving and experiencing the emotions of others you are completely NEUTRAL. NEUTRALITY is your natural state. Anything other than this is not yours.

Relationships are Effected by Familiar patterns Do you remember being a child? Children come into embodiment as fully open beings and are very sensitive to everything around them. Most children are very expanded and in touch with their abilities to manifest a generative and supportive universe, they can always find something and someone to share joy and play with. They spend their days in happy play and are confused by the choices of the a-dults around them to remain unhappy and contracted. As powerful beings children often decide to heal their parents and attempt to make them happy. But, can you ever make anyone else happy? By the time you are 2 years old you have become a little energetic carbon copy of your parents. If you grew up in a home filled with anger, you will tend to be aware of the anger around you in the world and to look for it because that feels like a normal way to be. So, how many times have you blamed and judged yourself because you experienced anger, hopelessness, fear, or judgment? How many times did you turn these energies in on yourself as though you deserved to be punished for having them? Is it possible that, somewhere along the line, you either tried to copy your parents, who seemed to know how to live here, or tried to heal their unhappiness by taking on their patterns? All the oaths, vows, fealties, swearings, comealties, commitments, contracts, agreements or promises you made to honor your parents by being like them, or to heal them by taking on their problems and troubles for them will you now…. Reclaim, revoke, recant, renounce, denounce, rescind, utterly destroy and uncreate all of that? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What energy space and consciousness are you choosing, that you really could be refusing, that if you would refuse it would result in having an expansive life of ease, joy, and glory in every moment? Everything that does not allow that to show up, will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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How many times have you taken on the anger, rage, judgment, fear, grief, or depression of those around you and owned it because you thought it belonged to you. After all, you were feeling it, so it must be yours… right? Is it possible that the same pattern you took on with your parents is the way you learned to relate to all other people? Everywhere you made an oath, vow, fealty, comealty, committment, promise, agreement or contract with your parents that they were doing it right, will you now…. Reclaim, revoke, recant, renounce, denounce, rescind, utterly destroy and uncreate all of that? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What would life be like if you were simply happy, joy filled, peace filled, and had a sense of ease? What energy space and consciousness are you utterly, totally, irrevocably, and eternally refusing, that you really could be choosing, that if you would choose it would manifest as a life of ease, joy and glory, instead of pain, blood, and gory? Everything that is, will you please uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Do you have the sense that you were sent here to help the planet somehow? Did you ever decide that it was a good idea to take on as much of the heavy emotions and traumas here as possible so that you could ease the suffering of those around you? Is it possible you are doing this? All the oaths, vows, fealties, swearings, comealties, commitments, contracts or promises you made to do this, will you now…. Reclaim, revoke, recant, renounce, denounce, rescind, utterly destroy and uncreate all of that? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you decide that you must blend into this reality by pretending to be judgmental and holding onto heavy emotions so that you could blend in? When you were a child, did you judge everything… or did you just love playing? I love how children can fight one minute and then 15 minutes later decide to play together. The idea of holding a grudge and gripping onto emotions is simply foreign to children. copyright 2009

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When did you decide to become a-dult? Everything that is will you now…. Reclaim, revoke, recant, renounce, denounce, rescind, utterly destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS. (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What energy space and consciousness can you be, know, perceive and receive that manifests as total the total joy and ease of living? Everything that prevents that from showing up, will you please uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What energy space and consciousness can you be to be the expansiveness of perceiving, the space of knowing, the intensity of receiving, and the gratitude of embodiment? Everything that prevents that, will you please uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Changing Your Story Changing Your Childhood Story The wonderful thing about releasing energy is that it does not happen in a vacuum, and effects everyone around you. Therefore, when you release your points of view, and the energetic contrivances (ECs) you have created to gather evidence to prove that your points of view are the right ones, everything and everyone changes too. You will be amazed at the changes in you, and those around you, if you try these techniques. I suggest you pick one below that seems to really move energy (or make your own release that resonates with you) and repeat it to yourself 30 times daily for 30 days. That is what I do with a process that really works for me. If your body begins to feel achey or sleepy remember to feed it extra salt, sugar*, or water for a few days. Your body might also benefit from Rescue Remedy, or Sepia. (see the chapter on Self Help) *see THE BASICS on page 4 of this book for details on the best kind of sugar and salt

Donʼt forget to use the BBR releasing technique also. It will help your body release the extra points of view that may still be stuck in your field after you do a number of clearings. These can be caught in the facia of body, muscles, organs or nervous system in a way that blocks energy flow and creates discomfort. When you feel physically blocked, do the 10 steps of the BBR Releasing Technique (see Index), using your issue as a tool to release even more patterns that no longer serve you.

Using your Childhood Story to Clear Relationship Patterns... In the 1950ʼs giving birth naturally was considered to be a sign of backwards cultures. The new, modern method was to put the woman under sedation and pull the baby out of the womb with forceps. My mom, whoʼs mother gave birth to her 5 babies at home, decided to have a natural birth. She had to literally sock the delivery doctor in the jaw and scream for my fatherʼs support to stop them from rendering her unconscious without her consent. Fathers werenʼt allowed in the delivery room then, so Dad had to run down the hall and fight his way into the room when Mom summoned his help. I slid out of the birth canal into the waiting hands of a very angry doctor. Today we know these childbirth practices are barbaric, and do not allow the mother or baby an easy birth. What was your birth like? Was it painless, joyful, peaceful, and honoring of you, or was it something less than this? In Europe dolphin centers exist where dolphin midwifes ʻsingʼ to the mother and baby during delivery. Women report that giving birth in these centers is orgasmic and babies that are born among dolphins show unusual talents and abilities.

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When did you decide this reality was too painful to be in, and that you ʼd made a mistake to embody here? Did you decide the first time you came into your body? Was it even before you were born? How many talents and abilities did you decide to turn off at birth because the intensity was overwhelming to you? Everything you did to resist and react to this reality will you please uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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How aware were you as an infant? Did you receive all the emotions of the adults around you energetically? Did you pick up their points of view as energetic patterns before you learned about language? Psychologists who study babies say they take everything around them in, with no filters. Do you know what patterns of belief you may have picked energetically that are affecting your ability to live the life you want? Are these patterns creating decisions based on points of view you took in as an infant? How do you change these (now unconscious) patterns. How many points of view about you, did you take in from your parents and those around you, even before you knew how to use language? All the Energy Space and Consciousness, Frequencies, Points of Views, ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs you adopted in before the age of 2, will you uncreate and destroy all of it? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Does a society which uses logic and reason to ʻfigure things outʼ support the expansion of full human potential? In the 1950s and 1960s many people, in an effort to be good parents, read Dr. Spock for advice on how to raise children correctly. Most of that generation venerated doctors, and relied on Dr. Spock ʼs books about child rearing. As an elderly man, Dr. Spock admitted in an interview, that he had ʻruinedʼ an entire generation with his advice to ʻspare the rod, spoil the child ʼ. Did Dr Spockʼs answers fit all circumstances? What would life be like if we allow our inner knowing to guide us in all we do while raising children? What would you be like if your parents had used awareness to raise you. Today, we arrest parents for spanking their children with a belt or pancake turner, as my parents did me. In fact we do not allow parents or teachers to ever hit children, although this was common before 1980. Does any ʻone answer fits allʼ solution we come up with really work all the time? Do logic and reason expand human potential and awareness or do they act as a poison? There is a saying that I have come to admire . . . ʻThe mind is a terrible thing! Waste it ʼ How many points of view have you chosen about your parents being right or wrong in the way they raised you? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs have you created to prove that these points of view are correct? Everything that is, will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What else is possible other than the ways we raise children today? For example parents used to slap the hands of their 2 year old children if they reached for something off limits. Today, we use baby proofing and the results guard the off limit things better, and create happier babies. What else is possible in a child/parent relationship? If you are now, or ever were in any lifetime, a parent or grand parent, how many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs do you have in place to prove you are a good parent and that you are doing it right, or that you are a bad parent and are doing it wrong? Or that something you did caused your children to make the choices they have made? Everything that is, will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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So how was your childhood? It is more than likely that the history you keep in your inner record is NOT what it actually happened. Usually we remember only the bad and traumatic things in our history. How do you know what really happened if it is not happening now? How do you know what changes will occur between you and your parents if you release them from the fixed points of view in which you hold them? Could it also be the other way around, they are holding you with their fixed positions? How about your children? How many patterns of behavior about parenting have you adopted from your parents? A few or a few million? What energy, space, and consciousness can you and your body be, to eliminate and eradicate all the erroneous energy, space, and consciousness that belongs to your parents and not to you? Everything that prevents that from showing up, will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Recently, I read a book designed for children 9+ years old. It was an adventure story and the hero was a 12 year old boy. The thing that was brought up over and over again was how the children in the book distrusted their parents and the police because they were not respected by them. They were used to being ignored and thought of as unable to cope with life. On the other hand, the book had many examples where the hero and his friends were much more capable than the adults. When did the war between adults and children start? How do you view children? How were you viewed by adults when you were a child? How much of the child/parent ʻwarʼ is a result of programming passed from one generation to the next?

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How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs do you have in place to prove that children are not as capable as adults? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs do you have to prove adults did not respect you as a child? Everything that is, will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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The first time you were exposed to the concept of love in this reality was with your parents. Did your parents spank you and then tell you they did it because they loved you so much? Did they say it hurt them more than it did you, to spank you, because they loved you so much? Did you misidentify and misapply that love was painful? Everything that is, will you please uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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How many times did your parents say something cruel or judgmental to you, then state they had to tell you because they really loved you? Was being ʻhonestʼ about your “faults” something that happened in your family? How many times as an adult have you done this to a friend, lover, or your own child? Did you misidentify and misapply that love was permission to judge the one who is loved? Did you misidentify and misapply that a good relationship meant one that allowed and encouraged judgement? Everything that is will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you agree and align, or resist and react, to your parents when they said you were wrong or bad? How about when they said you were especially right or good? Everywhere you decided love was not available unless you were good, or you decided the opposite, if someone really loved you they would do so even when you were bad, would you please destroy all the ECs, ECBs, ECEs, and ECILs and everything else you have created to generate evidence that this is real? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Is it possible you were being programmed with the beliefs of this reality about good & bad, or right & wrong? What if these polar opposites were all lies? What if the truth is that nothing is good or bad, right or wrong unless we judge it so?

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Everywhere you decided you could not love yourself unless you were right, so that you had to constantly create evidence of the rightness of you, will you please uncreate and destroy all of that? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did your parents deny you the chance to do or be something you chose and tell you it was because they really loved you? Did love mean they had the right to order you around, forbid you from following your inner guide, or control you? Everywhere you decided that love means you must give yourself up or sacrifice yourself for someone else, and all the ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs you have created to prove that this is the truth, will you now uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did ʻI love you” really mean, ʻI am your abuser” at the core? Did it love mean someone who loves you has the right the right to judge, criticize, control, or ask you to give up your life? Did you misidentify and misapply that love was abuse & judgement? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs have you created to generate evidence that love means judgement, criticism, giving up your life, or being controlled by those you love? Everything that is, will you please uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did your parents impress on you the need to survive? Are you an infinite being, or are you the body (your body) that you experience this reality through? Is the misidentification ( that you are your body ) part of the lie of this reality? Everywhere you decided that you need to survive, that your body countenance in this reality IS you, and everywhere you have misidentified and misapplied that if you body does not survive, you will not survive, will you uncreate and destroy all of that? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did your parents impress on you the need to survive to carry on your genetic line, or the critical importance of growing up to breed and continue the line? Did your parents give up the adventures of life in order to give birth to you and fulfill programming for survival of their family line?

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How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECLs do you have to prove that you must give up your life and have children to carry on your family genetic line, and that if you did not, you were somehow wrong or bad? Will you now uncreate and destroy all of that utterly and totally? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did your parents love themselves unconditionally? Were your parents happy and joyful most of the time? Did you decide, as a young child, that they were the example of how to be in this reality? Did you decide to model yourself after the first adults you met here (your parents) by being unhappy and judgmental of yourself? Everywhere you decided you were not having a life in this reality unless you were unhappy and judging yourself, would you please destroy and uncreate that? All the oaths, vows, fealtys, commealtys, commitments, promises and contracts you made to have a life like the occupants in this reality, will you please revoke, recant, rescind, renounce, denounce, reclaim, utterly destroy and uncreate them all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you decide your parents represented what love is in this reality? Have you modeled your life on theirs? Or have you resisted and reacted to their life pattern and decided they were wrong? Everywhere you are being your parents energetically and modeling yourself after one of them. Or Everywhere you are resisting one of both of your parents and deciding they are wrong, will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDs (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you misidentify that without love and a partner you could not survive or that you were bad and wrong? Everywhere you misidentified that finding love meant you would survive, while living without it meant you would not survive, will you now uncreate and destroy all of that? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you misidentify that with love and a partner you were good and right?

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Everywhere you decided you were a failure if you found love in your life. Or that you were a failure if you did not, will you uncreate and destroy all of that? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Did you enter into your adult relationship, at least partially to escape the parent/child relationship you were in? Did you enter into relationship so that you could finally be considered an adult? Everywhere you decided childhood was a confined role you needed to escape by becoming an adult, or by entering into an adult relationship, will you uncreate and destroy all of that? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Clearings to Change Every Relationship Have you ever noticed that the memories of you, and those you ʼve interacted with in your life, are not your actual life? What happens when you can forget who you are, like a child does when it ʼs playing? Do you let go of past memories a thousand moments of every day without realizing it? And if/when you let go, does the flow of life carry you along easily and effortlessly? Have you ever noticed that, even if your present life is a bit sticky and you are unhappy with it, memories of similar past situations can get in the way of making a good decision that will change the situation now? Have you tried, as I did, to help yourself let go of the past so you could spend more time in the ever fresh NOW? How in the “--(4 letter word)--” can we change this state of affairs and remain in the flow continuously? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs do you have generating proof that you do not exist without your story? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs do you have generating proof that your story is your life? Everything that is, will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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These questions, and the awareness they come from, has been the driving force behind inquiry methods such as Zen Buddhism, Sedona Method, Access Consciousness, modern psychology and many others. Unfortunately, most methods end up using a formula that does not change over time. Perhaps that is why the people, who use methods and formulas diligently, do not get free of their historical stories. Perhaps methods that do not change, lose their life and power as a tools to help untangle us from the memories we have created. Over time, the memories we store behave as a biofeedback system, never allowing us to stray far beyond the boundaries of past mistakes and decisions. Eventually, we have lives lived on auto-pilot.

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How many points of view have you adopted from others in this reality about how life is supposed to look? How many points of view have you chosen based on past events that effect your life now? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs have you created to generate evidence that all of this is the right way to live? Everything that is, will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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So what is a life lived on auto pilot like? Does it look like a life where no new ideas or solutions are created, or created very s-l-o-w-l-y? Look around you. The same politicians, with different faces are being chosen at each election and they continue to take more and more of our money in taxes and fees. Humans continue to rape and plunder the earth, even though she is our only hope for continued survival. We are, for the most part unhappy, and have a constant sense of stress and depression. Turn on the TV and you see dozens of advertisements for medicine to help depression or the effects of stress. At this moment dozens of wars are raging. Doctors estimate that 97% if illness is directly due to stress. So what is the answer to all of this? Even if we find an answer today ... will it still be the answer in 1 year, 5 years,10 years? How many ECs ECEs ECBs and ECILs do you have to prove that the formula for living your life you have adopted is the right one? Everything that it, will you now uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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I have learned something really valuable about changing my story and this amazing lesson began with my father and I. At the time I was intensely following a long time student of Lester Levinson, who was deceased. Lester had developed a formalized method of inquiry. Eventually, after 4 intense years, I gave up his method, because it had been integrated into my inner programming in a way that enhanced my auto biofeedback pilot. This autopilot was something I was attempting to disable, so that I could make fresh moment-to-moment decisions about my life, not feed and grow. How much of your education was IOU PODS (Idiotic, Obsolete, Useless Piles of Debris) and how many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECLs have you created to attempt to make it right? How much of this have you tried to use as the pattern to live your life from? Everything that is, will you now uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Before I gave it up, I received some wonderful gifts, and one of these was a completely new relationship with my dad.

The Letter Releasing Technique...

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Hereʼs what I did that generated this new relationship. I wrote a long letter to my dad that was completely honest. I wrote all the things I had never said to him before. I told him he was a mean, cruel, vindictive bastard and that he had really screwed me up because of the things he did to me while I was growing up. I really poured out all my venom and spite into this letter and got really angry at him in the process.... then I spent 8 hours reading the letter line by line and carefully questioning myself about each line. I did not finish this inquiry until late at night. By then, most of the sentences did not seem true to me any more. I kept re-writing them to keep up with my changing perception. When I was done, I had a letter that told of a father who had tried to overcome the programming from his alcoholic and abusive father. I wrote that heʼd done a pretty good, though not perfect, job of it and that I was a grateful daughter. Before mailing this letter to him, I decided to sleep on it. Next morning, the phone rang at 7:00AM, strangely it was my father. He and I only spoke a couple of times yearly, and the calls were all about him telling me why I was inadequate and what his thoughts and beliefs about the world were. This dayʼs call was short and totally different! ʻDawnʼ, he said, ʻIʼm just calling to tell you how much I love you! I hope you have a wonderful day! ʼ I remember standing with the phone to my ear long after he hung up, thinking . . . this stuff really works. I have told this story to a number of people, and no one I know had been willing to do it. It does really work, but you have to be willing to change your points of view and to take the time to put it into practice. If you ʼd like to try, here is a good releasing sentence you could say to help yourself let go of your points of view and the evidence you have gathered to prove that you are right. Who does this point of view belong to? How many ECs, ECBs, ECEs and ECILs have I created to prove that this point of view is correct? Am I willing to uncreate and destroy everything this is? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Destroying Your Relationships So You Can Renew Them Most relationships are not as strained as the one between my dad and I. But all relationships in this reality are based on past memories and decisions we made about the other person/animal/or thing, unless you have taken the time to free yourself from these. Have you ever considered that, as a co-creator, you have an effect on everything around you? If you believe someone is mean, they will spend time with you when they would like to enjoy being mean, because you are both in agreement about it. They want to be mean, and you agree that they are. But what happens when you would like to change the relationship? If you persist in believing they are mean, they will find it hard to change when they are around you. They may be in relationship with many other people where they are not mean. With you however, they have no choice but to match your unspoken request to co-create themselves as a mean person around you.

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Everywhere you have decided your were victimized by the other person in a relationship with you... will you consider the possibility that you co-created that? How many ECs, ECEs, ECBs, and ECILs have you created to generate proof that you are a powerless victim? A few of a few million? Everything that is, will you now uncreate and destroy it? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS Eventually you decide you hate them, and they hate (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Eventually you decide you hate being around them, and they hate themselves when they are around you. More than that, hate is a frequency that is generated when you are together and the relationship becomes painful and separating. So what can you do to destroy this pattern? Iʼm going to share with you a simple technique that you can do which will change all your relationships permanently. The catch is, you must use it! It starts with simple releasing questions and finishes with the BBR release technique. Will you uncreate and destroy your relationship with _(here you can fill in the blank with life partners, parents, children, friends, pets, businesses, etc)_____ utterly, totally, and completely? Everything this is will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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How many points of view have you chosen about _____? How many ECs, ECBs, ECEs, and ECILs have you created to support all of this? Everything this is will you please destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Next you need to do the BBR releasing technique starting with: Step 1: This painful relationship & all the past events with ______ really happened . Go through all 10 steps. (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Now you will need to generate your relationship anew, because you just destroyed the old one. I do this energetically by imagining the person, pet, or thing and then pulling their energy into me. I let this energy flow and ask my body to increase the flow until I feel a warmth in my chest. This may be extremely subtle or very strong, it does not matter which. Then I ask my body to equalize the flow between us.

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I recommend you do this every night before falling asleep with all your relationships. Believe it or not, it will even work with your businesses. All your relationships will begin to flourish. And any that donʼt will probably begin to fade out of your life naturally. Note: Many teachers in the metaphysical or healing community teach that you never want the other person s energy in you or your field because they believe that energy can be good or bad. Unfortunately that is what I was taught in my 30 s and it took me years to see through that lie. There is energy all around you, and it is neither good or bad, just like the light from the sun and air we breath. Trying to keep energy out and only allow good energy in is doomed to fail, because it is based on a lie. More than that, trying to keep energy out starves your body, which needs a constant flow of energy to generate itself moment by moment. So... let the sun and the energy shine in, and just keep questioning any points of view you are stuck in. If being near someone else stimulates a point of view you are caught in, thank your lucky stars they came into your life to show you where your energy is caught in a point of view or negative programming, and release it. ʼ

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Changing Your Love Relationships Is is possible that a relationship which is truly nurturing to you might NOT be based on fear and excitement. Could a really nurturing relationship be based on something else? Are you looking for resonance, and someone who enhances who you are... Not someone exciting? What if the ideal love relationship were comfortable? What if the ideal relationship were just fun? What if the ideal relationship enhanced your frequency? Everywhere you have misidentified and misapplied excitement as love, and seeing someone across a crowded room who you are drawn to as love, will you please uncreate and destroy it all, utterly, completely and irrevocably? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Would an infinite being have been married at least a few thousand or maybe millions of times? All the oaths, vows, swearings, fealtys, commealtys, commitments, promises, contracts and agreements, you have with all your former spouses, will you please reclaim, revoke, recant, renounce, denounce, rescind, utterly destroy and uncreate all of that? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Is it possible the one across the crowded room is the one who killed or beat you in your last lifetime? Are they the one you swore to get back at, no matter what? Are you aware how exciting danger can feel? Have you decided you are not alive unless you are in danger and feeling excited? Everything this brought up about the excitement of love and seeing someone across a crowded room, can you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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The Language of Loving Relationships Weʼve had some discussions about how our parents forever effected our relationships. One thing Iʼve noticed is that as I aged I began to look like my husband ʼs mother in who was in her mid 40s when he was a teenage boy. His relationship to me began to be copyright 2009

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more like a teenage boy with his mother at that point. One way that I am working, with some success, I might add, to change this is by changing my language..... Mommies call their little boys “honey, sweetheart, and sweetie” If you want a husband that sees you as Mommy, and sees himself as your child, this is the language to use. But if you want a stallion in your bedroom, you might consider changing your language. Hereʼs what I recommend she say to him... Lover, will you........? Give him a job, every man has been trained by his Mom that if he does his job he is worthy, and will get love. So give him a sense of self esteem. (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Hereʼs what he can say to her ... “Darling, I know with you in my life everything will turn out all right ʼ All little girls liked to be protected by their Dadʼs and most would like to be taken care of by a man... if your man is untrained, consider asking him for the correct language. Even though you both will know that it is a game you will still enjoy it! (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Tools The ʻEnergy Pullʼ Technique. Start with the energy pull. As soon as your heart warms up ask your body to equalize the flow of energy. Most relationships both give and receive energy at the same time.

Accepting energy you donʼt like. Find an energy you donʼt like that you are aware of coming from your love..... can you accept it? Ask your body to open up and receive the energy. As the energy comes into the cells and into the infinite in of you it will ʻfeedʼ your body and can create a feeling of aliveness, energy, or even tingling. Uncreate and destroy your relationships daily. Here is a good example of language you can use to do this:

I Uncreate and destroy my relationship with _(here you can fill in the blank with life partners, parents, children, friends, pets, businesses, etc)_____ utterly, totally, and completely? Everything this is I destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Right or Wrong, Good or Bad, POC and POD, all 9, BOYS, SHORTS, and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing ʻ

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Now generate your relationship anew, because you just destroyed the old one. Imagine the person, pet, or thing and then pulling their energy into me. Let this energy flow and ask your body to increase the flow until you feel a warmth in your chest. This may be extremely subtle or very strong, it does not matter which. Then ask your body to equalize the flow between you.

The Golden Ball Tool: Use this tool to create a relationship with someone who will celebrate and enhance you and your life. Imagine a ball in front of you as a sphere of golden energy. Place into this sphere the energy of the life you would like to have which celebrates you and is filled with the things you would like to have. You could consider placing happiness, peace, more money than you can spend, a lovely home, great sex, experiences you would enjoy having, and anything else that comes to mind. Take your time doing this and notice what the energy of the Golden Ball feels like to you. Now, fill the Golden Ball with even more energy from your heart and body. . . generate energy and allow it to stream into the Golden Ball until it is bright, and as large as you would like it to be. Now ask the golden ball to connect to those people and things that would like to share this copyright 2009

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life with you and would enhance your life. Ask the golden ball and ask it to find someone you would like to be with and to send out thin tendrils of energy to everyone it finds. You may see it make these connections, or not, it will work for you either way. Now ask the Ball to let you know when it needs anything from you. Thank the Golden Ball for being present to assist you in generating your life.

The Letter Releasing Technique Use this to change your relationship with anyone. Details are in the Previous Chapter

Beyond Boundaries Release Technique (BBR based on TAT) Before doing your very first Beyond Boundaries Energy Release, you will need to hold the BBR pose and put your attention on each of these three statements in turn for about one minute each: BBR is too easy to work or be of any value. BBR is easy and could work and be of great value. I deserve to live and I accept love, help and healing. You will not need to do these three steps again and can now use the following 10 steps. Put your attention on each of the Steps of BBR for about a minute while holding the BBR pose: think of a painful relationship you have had in the past or are in now..... Step One:

This (_____________) happened.

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(This happened) it’s over, I’m OK and I can relax now.

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All the origins of this are healing now.

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All the places in my mind, body and life where this has been stored are healing now.

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All the parts of me that benefited from this are healing now.

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I apologize to myself and to everyone else I hurt because of this.

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I forgive everyone involved, including myself.

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(optional) Take a moment to imagine your life without this problem. What does it look like? How does it feel?

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I choose to love and accept myself deeply and completely. I am now free to enjoy loving relationships, beyond the boundaries of personal history and past judgements

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Hold cupped hands loosely over ears with fingers touching head lightly while focusing on this statement: “This healing is completely integrated now.”

Note: In Step Three, you don ‘t need to know what the origins are; just make the intention that they are

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The Magical Companion Called Your Body What if your actual body was truly everything in this reality... and the small part you can control, which you think of as your body was truly the sensory organ so that you can experience and be aware of as this reality? Is it possible that every thing your body tells you is to help you be more consciously aware? What if every feeling, every emotion, every awareness, was delivered to you by your body as a gift to help you become consciously aware? Is it possible that your body is a separate being from you and that it is already fully enlightened,... and patiently and lovingly supporting you in expanding your conscious awareness? • • • • •

Are You Willing to Uncreate and destroy everything you ever decided about your body, and everything you thought it ever was? What is your body? How old is your body? How do you like the way your body looks? Will you now uncreate and destroy everything we discussed and everything you thought was true about your body?

Now... again, are you willing to uncreate and destroy everything you ever aligned and agreed with or resisted and reacted to about your body? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Everything about your relationship with your body... will you uncreate and destroy it all?(Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Has this Reality Programmed you With Lies About Your Boldy? So, how does this reality teach us to think about our bodies? Does this reality encourage gratitude and joy around having a body? Does it encourage competition and comparison... otherwise known as judgement... about your body in comparison to all others?

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All the oaths, vows, fealties, comealties, commitments, promises, agreements, and contracts you agreed and aligned with or resisted and reacted to .... will you reclaim, rescind, renounce, denounce, utterly destroy and uncreate it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Do body types go in and out of style? Would a robust and rounded female padded in soft layers of fat have been beautiful in the Rubenescue era? Would a robust and rounded female padded in soft layers of fat be beautiful in the jewish towns pre-Russian revolution? Did you ever see the musical, Fiddler on the Roof? When I was young, ʻTwiggyʼ was in fashion. A pre-pubescent woman with no breasts well into her early 20s, she was all the rage. Many girls desired to look like her and dieting to do so was common in teenage and young female communities of the late 1960s. Today ample padded women are thought of as beautiful in black communities. Is it possible you made a request to look like the great beauty ideals of a past era or another culture and your body is providing you with your request? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Every decision you ever made that looking like the current worldʼs idea of beauty . . . will you now rescind all of this and uncreate and destroy all of it? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What Energy Space and Consciousness can you and your body be to have a countenance that is fluid and easily changed so that you can always look like the current idea of beauty? Everything that prevents that from showing up will you now uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What if you did not align and agree with the current idea of beauty? What ESC can you and your body be to be attractive, active, and always turned on to communing with the energies around you? Everything that prevents that from showing up will you now uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What Energy Space and Consciousness can you and your body be to generate the body you truly be beyond time matter dimensions and realities? Everything that prevents that from showing up will you now uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What Energy Space and Consciousness are you absolutely, utterly, totally, and eternally refusing that you truly could be choosing, that if you would choose it would eradicate and eliminate all realities and non-realities and manifest as the body you truly be beyond time, matter, dimensions, and realities? Everything that is will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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What Energy Space and Consciousness are you absolutely, utterly, totally, and eternally refusing that you truly could be choosing, that if you would choose it would manifest as total communion with your body? Everything that is will you uncreate and destroy it all? (Yes ) Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Eating.... How do you know if your body is hungry? Are you aware hunger is an implant? Every time you feel hunger you can uncreate and destroy all the implants and explants in your body and all your BHCEEMCS . . . You can ask your body to help you. Eating. . . perhaps you are aware that most of the population is filled with hunger implants. . . How many meals have you eaten because other people were hungry and you were simply empathic and your body was telling you about their hunger? Here is a simple release which can help you begin to get free from this: Everything underlying this feeling of hunger, uncreate and destroy it all! Good, Bad, Right, Wrong, All 9, POD, POC, SHORTS, BOYS and BEYONDS. (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement ) ʻ

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Eating has really changed for me after a number of BARS sessions. My body likes different foods now. Often it simply likes to be NEAR food to absorb the frequencies rather than actually eating it. This is called ingesting rather than digesting. If you are used to eating supplements, begin to ask your body if it would like to digest, ingest, or simply skip eating the supplements. My body can usually ingest most nutrition around it so eating many things is just for the orgasmic pleasure we can share. The exception is sugar, salt, and water. These must still be digested by my body in order to keep it happy and healthy.

Spending Time With Your Body I suggest you consider spending some time daily focusing on your body. Exercise: Daily exercise that your body likes is the best kind. This may not be the exercise recommended by our society as good, but may include surprises you are not expecting. For example: • When was the last time you walked on a beach barefoot? • Have you ever run for just 5 minutes to enjoy the exhilaration of it? copyright 2009

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Have you walked in the early morning or late afternoon light recently? Turn on dance music and dance at home or go out to share this with others.

Touching is really enjoyed by all bodies. Here are some great ideas: • massage • rubbing oil into you skin • brushing your body down before a shower • lathering your body with soap suds just for pleasure • lightly caress your face, arms and neck when you wake up and tell your body you appreciate it being there for you Sex is important to Body Health. It is fun with a partner, however you are your body ʼs most intimate lover, and frequent masturbation is highly desirable for health and a joyful communion with your body. Ask your body how many orgasms it would like to have daily. You might be surprised by the answer.

Ask Your Body Learning to communicate with your body after thousands of years of neglect is an interesting process. When I began to ask my body what it desired, I really never got an answer for the first year. Now, I am beginning to actually hear answers. If your lines of communication with your body are down, you might have success with muscle testing. Thereʼs a lot of information on this topic and I have learned to use the simple technique of putting my ankles together and then asking my body if it would like to eat or do something. If the answer is “Yes”, it sways forward. If it sways backwards the answer is “no”. If you find your body swaying side to side you may not be asking the correct question, so try a new line of questioning. I see this most with food, if my body would like to ingest the food or supplement it will simple sway side to side until it is done (usually 3-15 seconds)

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Going Further & Deeper I have spent the better part of this life, and many lives previously, focused on getting free of my own programming so I can live life from a fresh place each moment. Years of my life have been spent in silent meditation. I ʼve been a student with (now famous) teachers, and done thousands of hours of inquiry. I did it all with my full attention, intention, and with great intensity. Each time a method, teaching, or path stopped working, I moved on to the next. Today I am sharing with you, in this book, what I have found to be most helpful. Howʼs your inner landscape? Is your mind continuously babbling along? Do you have an ʻinner voiceʼ? Does it refer to you as “You”? Do you suppose your life could be much easier and freer if you were able to have some peace and quiet for a change? What if every voice you hear is someone or something other than you? In point of fact you are probably way more psychic, empathic, and telepathic than you realize. And, if you have ever spent time meditating as I did, these talents and abilities have likely grown and blossomed. So the first thing to realize is that ... 97% of the thoughts, feelings, and emotions you experience are NOT yours. There is an easy way to prove this to yourself, however you may need to recognize a truth from a lie first.

The Keys to Freedom from Your Bio Feedback System Have you ever noticed that a lie makes you feel heavy, while something that is true makes you feel light? You can use this truth sense to find out how many of the

thoughts, feelings, and emotions you experience are yours. So hereʼs the simple exercise: For every thought, feeling, and emotion, ask.... Is this Mine, or someone elseʼs? All you need to do is ask this question for every thought, feeling and emotion you have for 3 days straight. Hereʼs what you can expect.

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1st Day: Let me say, this will NOT be easy on the first day! In fact it will be very hard work because there will be so many thoughts, feelings, and emotions! 2nd Day: If you persist, by the second day it will be pretty easy 3rd Day: By the third day, you will be in a blissful meditative state almost continuously This exercise will leave you with the lasting value of knowing for yourself that your mind is not nearly as busy as you think it is.

The Body, Your Magical Companion For Life You will likely need to assist your body in letting go of all the patterning stuck in it as positive and negative electrical charges. Itʼs not possible to get free of your programming without bringing your body along, as long as you have a body here in this reality. Your body is way more magical and more consciously aware than you are. I spend time weekly giving my body energetic clearings, learning how to commune with it, and re establishing a relationship that goes beyond the boundaries we usually have with our bodies in this reality. I have learned that conscious awareness is not possible without bringing my body along. I recommend you consider that your body has many things to tell you, and many things it can reawaken in you, but to do this it will need your help. There are many healing modalities and they all work to a degree if you use them. As your consciousness grows and you let go of preconceived ideas you will find the Divine offers you many doorways. Each path offers the possibility of further discovery and letting go. As your body becomes lighter and lighter the next step, and the next, will appear before you. ʻWhen the student is ready the teacher will appear” is a very true statement. There are many energetic body processes you can learn and do at home or as trades with friends. These range from processes that can release all memory of trauma from your body and cells, to processes that actually turn back the hands of time and even correct many debilitating diseases. What if the only one who will never leave you in this lifetime were your body? What if your body is the companion you have been searching for all along? I am available to do workshops almost all over the world, all I need is a group that would like to benefit from my knowledge.

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Relationship Beyond Boundaries is an Energy Exchange Swimming in an energy ʻsoupʼ filled with quintillions of frequencies and patterns, we live a life either enriched by it all, or in fear of it. If you allow yourself to be enriched and aware, you will find life a moment-to-moment adventure. One moment you are speaking to someone, the next moment you are intimately aware of everything they are choosing to be. One moment you are walking down the street, the next you are aware of everyone around you and the plants, insects, concrete which is also there. If you fight the energies you are not choosing in that moment, they will stick to you and cause you grief. Your body will let you know that you are blocking energy with feelings and intensity (which is usually misidentified as pain). On the other hand, you can choose to delight in receiving the energy that is all around you in any given moment. Ahhh! This is life lived at its richest and best! How do you do it? If you ʼre struggling with this here is a guide that will get you started. I would like to say that this has been a process for me, and I am still occasionally caught resisting some energy or pattern . . . when this happens just start again.

ENERGY PULL and COMMUNION I spontaneously learned to do this 21 years ago. At that time I was sleeping 1.5-2.5 hours each night and then rising in the pre-dawn darkness to take long walks in the hills. These evening walks were inspired by an inner sense of direction were done alone and without any mental activity. Each night for 9 years I would retire at midnight after a long day selling real estate. By 1:30 or 2:00AM I would be up and walking in the hills. I finished each walk with the exercise I am going to do with you. If done each day, this one exercise will totally change every relationship you have, including the one you have with you. First choose a relationship you would like to change and improve, it can be with your business, your spouse, your friends, your garden or even someone or something yet unknown to you. Imagine them for a moment and uncreate and destroy your relationship and all your history together. Then begin to pull energy from them into you. If you canʼt feel their energy coming into you, be patient, and ask your body to increase the pull. When this connection is firmly established with the other person you will feel warmth in your chest copyright 2009

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around the heart area. After a moment you can ask your body to equalize the flow between you. Here are some sample types of energy flow you may experience: •

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Continuous flow from you to the other person usually happens when the other person feels depleted or has lost the ability to be in touch with the life force energy that is all around us. Just relax and ask your body to pull more energy in and so that it has more to gift. The odd thing about this is that it will only energize you further if you do not resist it. You can flow energy to anyone who needs it at any time. Energy pushed towards you by the other person. Relax and just be willing to receive any amount they send you. Instruct your body to allow it to flow through with ease. Equalized flow from both you and the other person. This happens with friends, lovers and in most healthy relationships after a while. With a business that you have generated you will need to flow lots of energy into it, then ask it to send out tendrils of energetic connection to everyone and everything it needs to generate money for you. Ask it to let you know if it needs anything from you.

When to Use This If you could do this all the time your life would truly change. You can really benefit from doing it consciously in a number of situations: •

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Before returning someoneʼs call check out their energy requirement, flow energy to them for a minute or two before calling them back and the phone call will be very short. Underneath it all, the call is a request for energy from you. With a salesperson suck massive amounts of energy from them. This may result in total honesty from the salesperson, including getting a lower price.

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As I mentioned, this book is STRONGLY influenced by my time spent with Access Consciousness and as a student of Adyashanti and Open Gate Sangha. ,These teachings focus on inquiry as a means of quieting the mind and remaining in the energy of curiosity, rather than conclusion. In order to benefit from this e-book, I have included this explanation of the Clearing Statement from Access Consciousness and Gary Douglas.

Right, Wrong, Good, Bad, All 9, POD, POC, Shorts, Boys, and What Does It Mean? I took this statement from my work with Access Consciousness. Here is the defination of what it means . . . straight from Gary Douglas, the founder of Access. Beyonds: The clearing statement that follows is Access short speak for different energies that we are asking to clear. This is where we ask the energy to go to the point of creation of what we ʼre looking to unlock. For detailed information about Access: http://www.accessconsciousness.com/fac_detail.asp?mid=7 Right & Wrong, Good & Bad: Right and Wrong, Good and Bad stands for “what ʼs right good perfect and correct about this, and what ʼs wrong, bad, awful, mean, vicious and terrible about this.” It is the things that we consider right, good, perfect and/or correct that stick us the most, because we do not wish to let go of them or we have no apparent reason to let go of them. It is much easier to look for the things that feel wrong, bad, imperfect or incorrect to ease our pain and suffering. All 9: stands for all 9 layers of stuff that we clear energetically. The long version of “Right & wrong, good & bad all 9” represents: (1) How have we made this right, good, perfect and correct, or wrong, terrible, awful mean and vicious? (2) How does that diminish us? (3) How does that make us absolutely, totally, irrevocably, infinitely, utterly and eternally meaningless? (4) What are the rewards that make this right, good, perfect and correct or wrong terrible, awful, mean & vicious? (5) As [__________] what choices have we made or are we making? (6) As [__________] what creations create the commitments to the creation of our limitations? (7) As [__________] how many limitations of dimensionality hold this in existence? (8) As [__________] how many controls, definitions, limitations, forms, structures, significances, linearities, and concentricities of you hold this in existence? (9) As [__________] what are you unwilling to destroy that holds this in existence? POC: stands for point of creation of the thoughts feeling emotions immediately preceding your decision to have this, and POD stands for the point of destruction, all the ways you have been destroying yourself in order to keep whatever you ʼre clearing in existence.

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Shorts: stands for “whatʼs meaningful about this, whatʼs meaningless about this, what ʼs the punishment for this, and what ʼs the reward for this”. Thatʼs the short version. The long version of shorts is: What does [ ] mean to us? How do we make it meaningless? What are we punishing ourself for and torturing ourself with in relation to it? What are the rewards of it? How many layers and non-layers do we have in relation to it? How much meaningless glop and glop do we have in relation to it? Right, Wrong, Good, Bad, All 9, POD, POC, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds Boys: stands for nucleated spheres. These are pre-verbal. Basically these have to do with those areas of our life where we ʼve tried to handle something continuously with no effect. When that occurs, we have the Boys in the Hood. There are some issues which are onions, where you peel away and you get to the core of the issue, and there are some that are not. They are two different things. If you never get to the core of the issue, you are dealing with the nucleated spheres. A lot of what we have tried to peel the layers of the onion on is not actually an onion at all but it ʼs a nucleated sphere. If you have ever in any lifetime done peeling the layers of the onion as a way to clear an issue and it doesnʼt clear, itʼs because itʼs a nucleated sphere. After 25 billion years of peeling the onion, you never get clear. Nucleated spheres are like kidsʼ bubble pipes that have five little chambers in it and you blow in it and it fills up with bubbles. You pop one and it fills in, you pop one and it fills in, and the issue never goes away. The source of it is over here where someone ʼs blowing and you keep popping the bubbles somewhere else and the issue doesn ʼt ever truly go away. How many nucleated spheres do you have that you ʼve misidentified and misapplied as the incomplete onions of your life, and everything that creates all that, Can we destroy and uncreate it please? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 9 POD/POC shorts boys & beyonds (to understand this more fully go to page 34 Clearing Statement )37 ʻ

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Beyonds: is a feeling or sensation we get in our body which stops us dead in our tracks. Did you ever get a bill which was way more than you expected? When you get that bill, everything stops and solidifies in time, space, dimensions, and reality. Thatʼs a beyond. We have lots of areas in our life where we freeze up. Anytime you freeze up, thatʼs the beyond holding you captive. That ʼs the difficulty with a beyond: it stops you from being present. All the beyonds creating the eternally beyond keeping you captive, can we destroy and uncreate all that now please? Right and wrong, good and bad, all 9 POD/POC shorts boys and beyonds. Beyonds include everything which is beyond belief, reality, imagination, conception, perception, rationalization, forgiveness and all the other Beyonds Beyonds are usually feelings and sensations. Beyonds are implants and explants that have only feelings and sensations to them. These are very valuable tools to have in our tool kit, because when we have feelings and sensations about anything, it's beyonds! Beyonds are a specific implant designed to limit us. They are usually feelings and sensations - rarely emotions and never thoughts. Most "ex" words are beyonds - excitement, exhaustion, etc. “All of the beyonds creating the beyonds eternally beyond,” is the full clearing statement when we say "the beyonds” Anytime we have a feeling or sensation, ask for “All of the beyonds creating the beyonds eternally beyond connected to that?” Right, Wrong, Good, Bad, All 9, POD, POC, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds How many beyonds do we have controlling, copyright 2009

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dominating, manipulating, creating and destroying us, our BHCEEMCs, our lives, our existence, our relationships and our money flows? All of the Beyonds creating the Beyonds eternally beyond, Right, Wrong, Good, Bad, All 9, POD, POC, Shorts, Boys, and Beyonds. Everything in Access is about doing short speak. Once you recognize and perceive an energy, the energy is what really carries it, not the words. If this doesn ʼt make logical sense to your mind, be grateful. Our point of view in Access is, “A mind is a dangerous thing, waste it.” If you ʼre thinking, youʼre stinking. Your mind can only define the limitations of your reality. What we ʼre here to do is break the limitations of that reality so you can create a whole new world. Your mind is a calculating system that is only here to define what you already know. Weʼre here to wipe out your mind and give you a clean slate. You will have a different way of functioning as a result of this. Once you wipe out your mind as the regulating system of your life, then you get to function from knowing. Your mind gets in the way of knowing. We ʼve all had those moments, when with the snap of your fingers you knew everything, and you went, “Wow, thatʼs so cool.” Can you think yourself into those positions or do you find all the objections to why you can ʼt do that? Your insane mind has all the answers to how you create the limitations of your reality. Your logical mind justifies everything you do and does nothing to create the infinite possibilities. If your mind truly worked, you would have been out of all these messes in the entirety of reality already. If you know something, itʼs instantaneous. It does NOT require figuring it out. You will notice that you are different after these clearing statements. It can take about three weeks for you to really get the result and really notice the changes. Every time you give up one of these pieces of crap that you created, at least 350,000 other people get free. For every person in this room, for every point of creation we run (every time we say the clearing statement), 350,000 people get free. Sad, huh? If you were the creator of something and you give that up, 3.5 million other people get free. That ʼs why we love it when the creators (we call them perps, short for perpetrators) show up! © Access LLC. Santa Barbara, CA. 2008 by Gary M. Douglas. All Rights Reserved. This material cannot be altered without the express, written permission of Gary M. Douglas.

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