The following list is designed to be used b etween consenting adults who are expanding their sexual understanding and exploring the BDSM Lifestyle. Each item below should be rated with complete honesty to ensure a deeper deeper understanding between partners. This list assists with the development of scenes and establishment of limits. NO – This represents a hard limit which can never be requested under any circumstances 0 – No desire to do this activity or even hate it; however, you would permit your partner to do it upon request 1 – You do not really enjoy this activity but would not object to it 2 – You are willing to do this activity but it holds no special appeal to you 3 – You do this activity on an occasional basis and usually enjoy it 4 – You like this activity and do it on an occasional basis 5 – You really enjoy this activity and it is a major turn-on and is desired as often as possible
