FIRST THING FIRST
Advanced: Tanpa CML yang kuat, pengalaman yang cukup, dan
pengertian akan dinamika sosial, DRC hanya akan menjadi bumerang.
Fokus: Untuk FOLLOW UP (termasuk instant date).
Style: Sangat cocok untuk Hitman yang memiliki style cool, kalem, dan
berjiwa romantis. Bagi yang memiliki style berbeda, DRC dapat diaplikasikan dengan beberapa penyesuaian.
Main concept: DRC adalah penggabungan antara Deep Psychobreaking + Romantic Communication.
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DEEP PSYCHOBREAKING
Menembus tembok dan topeng sosial yang dipakai orang. ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________
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We are unique yet we are the same. 1.
Everyone’s broken
2.
Everyone’s searching for meaning
3.
Everyone has secrets
4.
Nobody understands me
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Women are the same: Basic principles of WoW. Semakin cantik seorang wanita, semakin bermasalah dirinya. Women…
1.
Don’t have friends.
2.
Don’t know what they want
3.
Insecure about their looks
4.
Always being an object
5.
Etc.
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Main factors: 1.
Family/parents
2.
Love life
3.
Tragic incidents
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How to break the wall: 1. Understanding the basic human needs. ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ 2. Understanding how human function •
Perception: happiness, love, etc
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Emotions: what is emotion
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3. Practice, practice & practice! •
Self analyze
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Cold reading
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Pattern Reading
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Pattern Association
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Intuition & Experience
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Info & Resources
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Why it’s important: 1.
Know thyself
2.
Self healing
3.
Problem solving
4.
Understand others
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By understanding others you give them what they need. But you can never understand others if you don’t understand yourself.
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ROMANTIC COMMUNICATION What is romantic? ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ 9
Romantic techniques: •
Eye contact
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Facial expression
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Body language
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Voice tone
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Sensual Tango
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Timing!
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Practice, practice and practice!
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DEEP ROMANTIC COMMUNICATION
STEP 1 – Gaining her heart 1.
Setting is vital! Plan your moves.
2.
Cold reading. But keep it light.
3.
Listen!
4.
The DRC questions.
5.
Understand her fears, doubts and feelings. Never give solutions. Never judge.
6.
Listen!
7.
Show her that you understand with simple words and Romantic Communication
8.
Never be surprised. You are above all problems.
9.
Never push her!
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Listen! 11
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Frontal Exposure! Tell her your analysis. Tell her what she’s doing, what she’s feeling, what’s the situation. Tell her what you’re doing,
what you think of her. 12.
Sensual tango!
13.
Show her you can make her happy. Be her man!
14.
Kiss her. Tell her you want her. But never give promises.
15.
Make a decision and proceed at your own risk.
16.
Keep your fuckin’ CML!
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STEP 2 – After gaining her heart 1.
Be sexy, affectionate, but still playful.
2.
Be congruent and consistent.
3.
Play safe and smooth.
4.
This is a dangerous game. Stay detached!
5.
Keep your fuckin’ CML!
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STEP 3 – Troubleshooting 1.
Always one step ahead.
2.
Always tell her you understand.
3.
I like you, but…..
4.
Always make it her mistake.
5.
Keep your fuckin’ CML!
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MINDSET
You can make her happy. She’s happy whenever she’s with you.
You’re the only person in this world who understands her.
You can’t be a superhero if you don’t have super powers. Don’t try to save her. Your job is only to make her feel understood.
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