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Advanced Boyfriend Annihilator Techniques
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his manual consists of a collection of nine advanced boyfriend annihilator technique contributed by some of the master seducers in the world today.
The material contained within manual should be consumed only after one has mastered the techniques contained in the “core” Boyfriend Destroyer system (the audio guide as well as the 6 Boyfriend Destroyer patterns manual).
CONTENT Technique #1: The “Black Rose” Boyfriend Annihilator (by Brad Marshall) Technique #2: Future Projection (by Johan Ingram) Technique #3: Boyfriend Destroyer On Steroids (by Derek Rake) Technique #4: The Comparison Test (by Rick Rudder) Technique #5: The Rapport Stacker (by Derek Rake) Technique #6: Lightning Rapport Builder (by LayHustler) Technique #7: Make Her Your Leech (by Johan Ingram) Technique #8: Make Her Obey You (by Benjamin Damien) Technique #9: Communication Seduction (by Rick Cage)
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Advanced Boyfriend Annihilation Techniques
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Technique #1: The “Black Rose” Boyfriend Annihilator By Brad Marshall (originator of the Black Rose Method – http://www.blackrosemethod.com)
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’ve been using this technique on attached women and it works like a charm every time I use it. First, you need to pay close attention to how she talks about her boyfriend.
If she brings it up early on, mentioning she has a boyfriend a few minutes after you meet, this would not be the time to bring out the boyfriend annihilator. All you need to know that early on is that she ISN'T attracted to you (yet!) so she's probably LYING about having a boyfriend because she isn't interested in what you have to offer. So, if this phrase pops up far too early, you have to deal with various fundamental game problems first. Now, if she chooses to wait a bit until mentioning the guy and only says it reluctantly, then the GAMES can begin.
THE ULTIMATE BOYFRIEND ANNIHILATOR What you have to do is ignore what she said and do not make a big deal out of it. Once she mentions the boyfriend, just say "okay" and continue to game her like nothing happened. This rule can be broken later on, though, once you know how calibrating works. Now, if she mentions him again, there are several techniques that will work WONDERS at taking that boyfriend out of the game so that she only thinks about YOU instead. In fact, some guys are so successful with these techniques that the girl ends up going home with them afterwards - believe it. All of these techniques are based on easy principles. You generally just have to create some sort of VOID inside of her by showing her how unfulfilling her current boyfriend is. Then, you can show her that you can fill that void and make things right in her life again. Several principles to remember:
Page 4 of 26 First of all, BASHING her boyfriend will only make her support and DEFEND him. This will anchor good feelings to him and put you in a BAD light. Wrong move. The same rings true for whenever SHE bashes her boyfriend and you JOIN IN. The same thing will also happen if you try and tell her that you are a much better catch compared to her boyfriend. On the other hand, if you keep talking about how great her boyfriend is in an exaggerated manner or mention how they were meant to be together, she will start re-evaluating him on YOUR TERMS and get disappointed. Also, if you somehow mention that YOU would probably be a horrible boyfriend and pity yourself because nobody will date you, your target will begin to relate this to HER own relationship. Irony sometimes works, too, so you can try telling her that you would be GREAT and describe every bad trait you have as if each one was perfect, if you want. Put some adventurous Future Projections to use so she can start seeing you together. HEAVY use of this is highly recommended, actually. You can also fractionate between witty and joking tones to serious tones, but you have to gauge how much she really likes you and how much she loves her boyfriend first. TONS of false disqualifiers will also work. Try to make several excuses as why you cannot see her during the week, most of all those excuses that would disqualify yourself. For even higher success rates, make them extremely weak to boot, like "other women are keeping me busy". This works best right after an adventurous Future Projection. Remember: act like you DON'T CARE if she has a boyfriend or not and if she ever says it, pretend like you didn't hear the words. Know that she is meant to be with you. NEEDINESS is not a factor here. Put all of these principles together, along with any others, and you can become the ultimate boyfriend annihilator in no time. Here are several routines you can create during conversations with women.
Page 5 of 26 You: "Are you a lesbian?"
Her: "No! In fact, I have a boyfriend. [starts to describe the guy she is dating and whom you have seen before]"
You: "Well, I like him, so that's good."
Her: "Why is that good?"
You: "Well, if I didn't, I'd steal you away from him and bring you to a deserted island where we would spend the week sunbathing, skinny-dipping and drinking rum. [You can keep going with this Future Projection or not; it's up to you.] That won't happen, though. So, you guys have been dating for how long?"
Her: "Oh, just several weeks."
You: "Wow, your eyes are sparkling and you look like your glowing. You must really love this guy. Why, I bet a year or so from now, you guys will be married and happy with kids and all that." [Say this in a tongue-incheek way.]
Her: "I haven't even thought about marriage and I don't want any kids just yet. I'm very independent, you know!"
You: "Of course, of course. He's still perfect, though. I bet he gives you flowers and chocolates every time he sees you. He must be the perfect gentleman who doesn't even LOOK at other girls when he's with you. [This is perfect if you have been gaming girls the whole night and getting their numbers where she could see you.] Other things you can do with the structure: She talks about her boyfriend and begins to qualify him through adjectives. Use this structure when you begin
Page 6 of 26 a FUTURE PROJECTION (see Johann Ingram’s article below).
"So, since I kind of like your boyfriend and don't want him to get hurt, I guess we'll have to meet in secret so he doesn't find out about our meetings." Then, build her boyfriend up with the following: "You know, you guys seem to be completely in love with each other. I can tell he's absolutely PERFECT for you. You'll probably be together FOREVER. In fact, he'll probably propose real soon and then you'll have a huge wedding and several kids and live in a gorgeous house. And, well, I just wouldn't forgive myself if I ended up ruining all of that because he the absolute PERFECT GUY." This should trigger the boyfriend bashes ("Well, he's mean sometimes.") and you can retaliate with, "Really? Well, I wouldn't act that way if I was lucky enough to be your boyfriend. I'd call as much as possible JUST to see how you're feeling or what you're up to. I'd get mad if I didn't hear from you ONE day just because I'd love you with ALL my heart. Naturally, I'd still go and drink with my dudes whenever I want to, but I guess that would give you space to spend with your girls - you know, to cook and clean and stuff. And I would always remember anniversaries and Valentine's Day …NOT." So, basically: If she brings up her boyfriend, you have to ignore it. But when she brings him up a second time, you can start up three threads: First, there is the future projection of you two having sex. Make sure you only use images that she will really fantasize about (read some romance novels for inspiration) and then disqualify yourself. ("That won't happen in this lifetime, though.") The second thread will describe her boyfriend as the perfect guy to amplify his faults all the more. The third thread will describe you as horrible. Irony works here, too.
Page 7 of 26 As a matter of fact, these anti-boyfriend secrets are so effective that they even work on single girls. Just talk about ex-boyfriends or perfect guys, in general, instead of boyfriends. You can even start a future projection about your potential illicit meetings, getting pictures into the newspaper or fleeing the paparazzi.
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Technique #2: Future Projection By Johan Ingram (aka MrX) – http://www.theseducersguide.com/tpg1.html
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have the ultimate secret on how to get women to like you by making them vivify a crazy experience and connect it to you. In fact, you even fly all over the world and meet all of the women you want with this secret. Yes, this secret is so good, it can turn you into an unstoppable super-charged
social artist in a heartbeat. Believe it.
See, the best way to create female attraction would be to show them that your life is incredibly compelling, strong and irresistible. One great way to reach this goal would be through Future Projection. This refers to telling adventurous and unrealistic stories set in the future, starring nobody but the girl of your dreams and you. Now, there are several rules that need to be followed when putting a Future Projection to use. If you do not follow these rules, your projection could end up failing. Read on to find out what these rules are. RULE #1: Fantasy Always Trumps Non-Fiction.
A great Future Projection needs to look into the fact that fantasy is simply compelling. By letting a woman live out a fantasy, you will see some astounding emotional effects. For instance, if you use a Future Projection where you take a woman to Paris with you, you can make your projection much more effective by adding things like: "And we climbed the Eiffel Tower, which ended up skyrocketing into the sky where we sat amongst the clouds." Alright, so you do not have to reach that high of a degree in fantasy, but adding advanced technology or super powers can improve any projection greatly - remember that. RULE #2: Connect The Dots.
Now, no one will find joy in hearing about your personal fantasies day-in and day-out. Plus, while a woman may enjoy thinking about personal fantasies, as well, she will quickly forget who made her start fantasizing to begin with. So, a great Future Projection should project the both of you in a fantasy together. Whatever connection you have in the projection doesn't matter; you simply need to both be there and both enjoy it.
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RULE #3: Stay Optimistic.
This should be common sense. Since we are dealing with fantasies, you need to make sure all of yours are happy ones. If not, your Future Projection could become unwelcome. I actually had a friend once who started his fantasy with locking the woman in question up in a tower and he never got to finish it because his target stormed off. Yes, he may have used a projection set in a world of fantasy, but since it sounded negative, his projection became unwelcome to the woman's ears. RULE #4: Combine It With Reality.
A great Future Projection won't just stay in the fantasy world forever, though. One essential aspect of a good strategy in Future Projections is the return to reality. So, after finishing your Future Projection, make sure you bring it back to the here and now. I will be giving example projections later - don't worry - so you can compare the endings for yourself. The majority of them will go back to today, while making comments on how much the social status has improved - take note of that. RULE #5: Spontaneity Is Key.
Although some Future Projections succeed when scripted, it would be best to make your delivery seem spontaneous, otherwise your projection may come off as fake. Try using long pauses in your projections and be comfortable even if you come across slight pauses now and then. Never rush into things. Be confident at all times and enjoy the moment. So now you are aware of all of the Future Projection rules. Here are several of my personal favorites. I enjoy coming up with Future Projections spontaneously, but if you aren't an expert at improvising, stock projections will work just as well. Here are several examples that started off as improvisations, but ended with revisions. The Disney Adventure ”I'd like to do something one day. I want to take a trip with you to Disneyland. We could go to Space Mountain there. But, instead of being in the rollercoaster car, we could go into an actual rocketship and fly across the galaxy with Mickey Mouse and have crazy adventures. You can't tell Minnie, though, or she'll get
Page 10 of 26 mad. Then, we could fly back here and everybody would be so jealous because you became my Space Mountain princesses!”
The Shrinker ”You're so adorable. You know, I just want to shrink you *make shrinking motion with your fingers* down to this size and then I'll buy you a plastic case to live in. You can pimp it out with wall-to-wall carpeting and granite countertops - the works! And I'll get to keep you inside my pocket all the time. Then, whenever people tried to mess with me, I'd unleash my little secret and you could just surprise them and tickle them to death *tickle her*. Then people would just stop messing with me, my little Polly Pocket tickler.” The Ninja Kid Hey, you know what we should do? We can dress up like ninjas - you can keep that clip on your head if you'd like - and then we can use our ninja powers to take every single Twinkie in existence. Then we should feed the Twinkies to the kids of mean parents, so they can all rise up on sugar highs and win over the establishment. They'd even be holding their dolls and rattles as they do this! And nobody would even know that we were behind it because we're the best ninjas ever. Then we could just go back here and watch all of this on the news and giggle to ourselves: the ninjas of the Twinkie revolution!
Test The Routine Of The Future Projection: 1. Is it successful? 2. Is it hard to master? 3. Were you called out while using it? 4. What would be its hook point strength? 5. Strength in building rapport? 6. Your overall skill level? 7. Amount of times you tested it? 8. Any other insights? 9. Any suggested routine modifications to add? Reasons to test it:
Page 11 of 26 Derek Rake (http://www.derekrake.com) has jokingly said that this routine is the only one you will need to attract and seduce any woman - single or taken - and has even referenced it in a lot of Field Reports. After telling several friends that we were putting this to the test, they said that, when done properly, this was definitely a highly powerful technique to use on women.
They still can't believe we are letting the secret out.
Just follow all of the rules while testing it out and see if it works wonders for you, too!
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Technique #3: Boyfriend Destroyer On Steroids By Derek Rake (http://www.seductiononsteroids.com)
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t's sad but true: the most gorgeous women out there tend to be taken. If men are the spiders who try to catch numerous women in their webs, women are the monkeys that swing from tree to tree never letting go until there is another one to hang on to up ahead. Several women keep several guys on
hand as friends, so they can string them along and keep them there, in case a need comes up for them in the future. This is why women who have boyfriends should never be ignored. If you do, your options will be very limited. Several years ago, I was at a French convention, which I only ended up at by mistake. I wanted to leave right away, most of all after taking a look around and realizing how gorgeous the women were. They were so incredibly out of reach, though, because I didn't speak a word of French. The same goes for any other language that I don't speak, really. So, the point is: you have to INCREASE the options that you have instead of DECREASING them. So she has a boyfriend, so what? This doesn't mean she is done looking for LOVE, for special feelings, for challenges, for fun, for different kinds of stimulation, or for better options in general in our big, wide world. This is why you have to find out how to overcome objection. Let her see YOU as a better option, no matter how temporary that option may be. This is where boyfriend annihilating comes in. A boyfriend annihilator technique is the most effective when the boyfriend simply isn't meeting the woman's needs and the woman wants to leave him, but just needs a bit more nudging first. Here is a general guide on how to do it. First, you have to ask about the guy. She may find this weird, but you need to start this conversation so you can get the information that you need about him and their relationship, in general. Find out how much they go out, how often he says he loves her, anything else she might want from him that she doesn't get, and how she TRULY feels about being his girlfriend.
Now, no matter how badly she talks about him, though, restrain yourself from joining in the bashing; all you have to do is be understanding and say things like "I get that" or "some guys are just like that". If you're brave enough, you can try out some reverse psychology and say things like "maybe he just didn't know" or "I'm sure
Page 13 of 26 he still loves you". This will make her more persistent in her words and become more adamant in proving how awful the guy really is. Next, you have to elicit her values and find out her real wants, desires and dreams. Find out what she deems important in life, what she was like when she was little, and other female things. Make her mind fantasize and let these happy things reflect within you. Once you stop talking, she will realize YOU were there to talk about those dreams with her. Now, to truly win over her mind, reframing her would be an absolute necessity. You should have an easier time talking to her about what the ideal guy needs to be like by now, though, by using all of the secrets you have learned thus far. For example, I met a girl recently who was telling me about her break-up with a total jerk; this lasted for fifteen minutes. The more she got worked up about it, the more I got bored and realized that all of the negativity would stick to me. That's when I said "Imagine that guy's right here on this table two inches tall. Now smash the image and crumple it completely." The next millisecond, she instantly smashed the invisible figure on the table. I hadn't even finished talking yet! Then I said "FLING him away so he's gone forever!" And she did without another word. She never spoke about him again. Mission accomplished. However, there are some women out there who actually LIKE their significant others and in these cases, there isn't much you will be able to do to annihilate their boyfriends within them. Fortunately, another approach does exist that you can use on these women. I once met a girl in a club who mentioned "the boyfriend" in the most casual manner. My reply? "So, what attracted you to your boyfriend to begin with?" She proceeded to tell me what first attracted her to her boyfriend: "I wasn't actually attracted to him IN THE BEGINNING, but there was something in the way he… he also… and…" Pay attention to this because she will basically give you a complete guideline on how to make her fall for you! After that, I asked, "The first time you knew you loved him, how did you feel, exactly?" Regardless of how she responds to this, she will revert into that first in-love feeling in her head - with YOU around her as she starts to feel good.
Page 14 of 26 Then I asked, "Where did those feelings begin?" She said it started inside her chest, but a lot of girls might say stomach or throat. After that, my question was, "And after your chest?" That's when she said it went to her stomach. Then I said, "So let me clarify things here… See, I talked to somebody last week who said her feelings started inside her throat. Well, yours started at your chest…" That's when I put my hand on her chest. "Before it went to your stomach. Am I right?" I asked, tracing my fingers down towards her navel. This made me deal with HER process of falling in love and LED her to where it went by tracing my finger down her path of feelings. Doing this happened to anchor great feelings towards myself because I produced the whole attraction experience for her by tracing those feelings on her skin with my finger - all the while pretending it was just to see whether I got things right. My ending line was as follows. "It's sort of strange how a person can get attracted to somebody just like that... merely exploding inside a person's stomach. I guess this happens a lot, though, huh? So who am I to fight those feelings, right?" At the very end, you NEED to have established some kind of rapport with this. Remember: the more rapport that you build, the better she will end up responding and the greater the overall effect will end up being.
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Technique #4: The Comparison Test By Rick Rudder
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he most method that I would use would be the Comparison Test. It’s something that I came up with when I read Benjamin’s Boyfriend Destroyer manual, and it has since been field-tested hundreds of times with high success rate. It’s a good way to “bounce back” after getting the “I have a boyfriend line”. THE COMPARISON TEST You: Oh, you're taken? Well, what car do you drive? Her: A Honda Accord. You: If I gave you a Ferrari that is brand new in exchange for it, would you give up your Accord? Her: Yes. You: So, do you currently live in a house or an apartment? Her: An apartment. You: Cool. Do you own it or rent it? Her: I rent. You: If I offered you a new mansion completely furnished in exchange for your rented place, how would that sound? Her: That would sound great. You: Okay, last question…What's your line of work? Her: I'm a secretary. You: That's kinda cool… But what if I offered you a million dollars not to work as one ever again… would you agree? Her: In a heartbeat, actually! You: You're clever. Here, give me your number. I'd like to talk to you again someday.
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If you’ve been studying seduction for some time, you’ll notice that this technique is similar to the “Yes Ladder” often used to solicit positive responses from women. It works amazingly well – try it!
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Technique #6: The Rapport Stacker By Derek Rake (http://www.seductiononsteroids.com)
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his secret will not just help you build rapport, but will also give you the power to “anchor” properly.
I have come across many circumstances where I had to make up good responses spontaneously when girls asked about what I wanted out of a relationship. Hell, I'm not very fond of the R word; however, if a girl brings up the subject, a good - if not great - reply would be needed to show her how smart you and sophisticated you are, and how much more there is to you than she knows.
Now, before using this, you have to make sure you are in a casual place like a coffee shop, a restaurant or a bookstore. Also make sure that there are only the two of you sharing a deep conversation.
“Listen, I have this relationship theory - on what constitutes the perfect one, to be exact. The first thing that you would need is passion. This refers to the overall physical chemistry that you have with a person, the feelings that you draw you to one another. For example, you might have warm feelings inside your stomach whenever you're with a person that later spreads onto your entire body. You might even lose complete track of time because you've started to totally give yourself up to the experience…
The second thing you need would be intimacy, where you start feeling emotionally connected to the person, as if you have known each other forever and as if you were simply meant to be together. You start feeling totally close to each other and comfortable with one another. You might start feeling things inside your heart…
The next thing you would need is commitment - the duty where security can finally be felt. This is when you know that the person will always be by your side if you choose to be with each other. This is when you starting seeing one another in the immediate and not-so-immediate future…
Now, every relationship depends on different degrees of all of those elements.
Page 18 of 26 This means that, if passion is all that you have, then it would only be physical infatuation - maybe a onenighter and nothing more…
If only intimacy is present, that would only be a friendship - something that everybody has…
If only commitment is there, the relationship would be an empty one. Sadly, many marriages today are like that. It's also possible to have intimacy and passion without commitment, though, like in romantic affairs or relationships without guarantees that make the intimacy and passion all the more intense…
Commitment and passion without intimacy, on the other hand, would refer to people who are only together because the sex is good.
And then there's passion-less commitment and intimacy, like the old couple that stays together just for companionship. Now, naturally, the perfect relationship needs to have balance. There needs to be enough passion, enough intimacy, and enough commitment… though maybe an extra dose of passion would be even better… what are your thoughts?”
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Technique #6: Lightning Fast Rapport Builder By LayHustler
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ne great way to speed up the rapport-building in the middle of the game would be by changing locations.
Go to a coffee shop, for example, and sit inside, then go outside for some air, then stay in the car because of the cold, etc.
Keep in mind that there is one essential principle when it comes to persuasion, though: if somebody gets stuck in an emotional rut, you have to get them going physically by using the mind and body connection.
See, the more locations a girls feels comfortable being around you in, the higher her comfier level will be around you.
Another important element to mention would be isolation. If this comes first, then there won't even be a need to change locations!
For instance, I picked up a hot blonde in her late 20s who had long legs and a hot body.
I called her that same day and she asked me if I wanted to meet her somewhere to pick her up. Now, if this particular opportunity comes up to isolate… grab it!
So I went to this blonde girl's house and while we were sitting on her sofa, I thought "I won't even have to take this girl out!"
So by building up enough comfort and sexual attraction with my material on sexual rapport, we ended up in the bedroom in just half an hour - with nothing but isolation
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Technique #7: Make Her Your Leech By Johan Ingram (aka MrX) – http://www.theseducersguide.com/tpg1.html
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here are some women out there who fall in love with men SO DEEP that they end up devoting all their energy and time to those guys, in turn giving these guys the power to make these women do ANYTHING they want. As unhealthy as it may seem, these women end
up clinging to those men and becoming complete LEECHES.
Or how about this: What if you were having an incredibly stimulating and interesting conversation with a woman? You know, you feel the VIBE and you know that she FEELS it, too. What if you both were ATTACHED to one another?
Attachment refers to people investing themselves into an interaction. Keep in mind that attachment can also boost a woman's willingness to act and to stay true to you through time. This is similar to the principle of consistency and commitment because it focuses solely on relationships and seduction. Here are some ways on how to make a woman attached to you.
1) Physical Attachment If a woman hasn't been with another man before you than she will most probably give you lots of her attachment energy. You will always be her first, after all. Now, by using this particular concept, you can make any woman completely devoted to you. There are various examples of physical attachment out there. For example, if a woman does favors for you or works for you, that would be considered as physical attachment. In other words, you are the bank and if a woman puts more money into you in the form of physical attachment, energy or work, the more she will feel invested in you as a whole.
2) Emotional Attachment A woman will become emotionally attached once she opens up her feelings and shares them with you. This would include her values, hopes and dreams. Plus, she won't mind talking to you about the FUTURE, bringing you into the whole picture. Remember: you shouldn't be the first to bring this up unless you really MEAN it. You don't want to PLAY her around because of bad karma, so take some time to calibrate her.
Page 21 of 26 3) Time Attachment A woman will become more TIME ATTACHED to you, the more you spend TIME together. See, women tend to become much more devoted to men the more years they have been together. Also, if she spends more time trying to win your heart, the more she will see you as valuable. Think about it: it is common nature for people to find things more valuable the harder they have to work for it and pay for it, right?
4) Social Attachment You need to share a lot of SOCIAL TIES with a woman if you want your relationship to become more valuable in her eyes. Once you meet her friends, colleagues, and family, and vice versa - and once you share mutual friends - your value will INCREASE in her eyes.
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Technique #8: Make Her Obey You By Benjamin Damien (http://www.boyfrienddestroyer.com)
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id you know that if you let a woman run after you FIRST, you will end up having all of the power in your relationship?
See, when a woman picks you, she will be in your frame and territory; you will be seen as the prize. This is why it is of the utmost essence to be chosen rather than to choose. If you seem like you are choosing her, you will have no power at all. So do not waste your time on women who do not choose you as that will be the end of it for you, as we speak.
So can you make women choose you, then?
1) First and foremost, begin with your personal frame of mind: you need to be the prize. This stuff has a lot to do with identity levels. You need to make sure your game is tight in every area of life work, lifestyle and home - and represent everything a woman could possibly want. This is where alpha male traits would apply. See, when looking for a mate for life, women do not just look for resourceful men, but men who have qualities that can lead to accumulated resources, such as status, ambition, age, intelligence and health.
2) Know what the woman wants. Be it excitement, security, adventure, respect or love, you have to know what will make your woman happy. Know what her criteria for ultimate happiness is through a value elicitation. Ask questions like "What are you like when you are absolutely happy?" and "What does it take for you to reach a certain level of happiness?" See, women choose men who can truly deliver, so you need to show her that you can deliver the most important thing to women: FEELINGS.
Page 23 of 26 A lot of women have underlying feelings of being held captive life, work, bills and REALITY. In fact, this is the reason why women watch chick flicks and soap operas, and read romance novels - because their needs aren't met, so they unconsciously try their best to meet them. Think about it: work and bills all TAKE things from her, so if you can GIVE, she won't be able to resist.
3) No woman is truly satisfied. This holds true for every area: career, self-esteem, sexuality, LIFE. A lot of women out there want to be in a movie where life is anything but boring and where spontaneity and danger are everyday facts of life. Women want adventure and want to be rescued. In fact, a lot of women will try to create drama in their lives because they are so bored.
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Technique #9: Communication Seduction By Rick Cage
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re you dreaming of BLOWING a woman's mind just by talking to her? It doesn't matter how great you look; if you do not know how to talk smoothly, it could be the end for you. Or if you are lucky enough to be good-looking, she will merely tell you to shut your hole and sleep with
her already! Yes, good looks can determine how women talk to you; however, the way you communicate can help you get LAID if you have trouble in that department!
Everything is about communication. This is how people interact after all. In fact, NOT communicating isn't possible. All of the things that you say or don't say, your looks, your clothes - they say something about who you are.
So… what do you really say to people?
Before, when I was still learning about the different seduction systems out there, I knew someone who would constantly approach girls and I always watched how they would respond.
I don't want to berate him or anything, but he never groomed himself and always looked disheveled. He also had horrible acne and bad breath. Seriously.
All he had to do was WALK UP to someone and she'd start to PANIC!
Naturally, we did our best to help him out with everything, but he never GOT THE PICTURE.
So what were the words that came out of his MOUTH when he spoke to women? I had to hand it to him: he was a major APPROACH MACHINE - something similar to a boxer who wouldn't give up after falling at
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You GET MY POINT, though, right?
Now read on to find out how you can communicate with women and succeed at your objectives all the time:
1) Say the Right Words Many guys out there will memorize lines and spiels to use, so they have the perfect words to say to women. Unfortunately, this usually makes them sound like they are delivering sales pitches (read: unnatural!). You need to remember that women can tell when they are being talked AT instead of being talked with. Don't get this the wrong way, though. Provided you say things in the right tone and match it with the perfect body language, it usually won't matter WHAT comes out of your mouth, but HOW you say the words. But get ready as there are more levels to follow that can truly blow female minds in no time at all. All you have to do is move on to the levels that are really deep.
2) Use the Right Body Language and Tone Both body language and tone can give your words the right power and amplify the things that you say even more. As mentioned earlier, it won't matter WHAT comes out of your mouth, but HOW you choose to say it..
3) Convey the Right Meaning Do you sometimes talk to women and realize that they just won't stop talking, they start to sound like SIMS characters?
And then you find yourself thinking: what in the world is she talking about?
Everyone has been through that ordeal at one point or another. However, there is a REASON as to why she can't STOP talking: it is because she NEEDS something. And she WON'T STOP until you shut her up yourself or you address her needs and tell her that you know she HAS NEEDS.
Page 26 of 26 Another thing to remember is that women CONSTANTLY read between the lines, which means that she will always try to INTERPRET what you say. See, women are like clever little detectives who need to understand every little thing!
So, whenever you talk to a woman, just take a step back so you can ask yourself why she is telling you those things in the first place. It will give you insights on how a woman think… and if she is attached, it will give you ideas on how to make her forget about her boyfriend… and go for you.
