7 Ways to Attract and Get Any

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A “Secret Dating System” Special Report…

“7 Ways To Attract And Get Any Women You Want, No Matter How You Look Like, How Old You Are Or How Much Money You Have” - This Is proven, This Works, This Will Get You Women.

By Darius G. © 2009, All Rights Reserved.

www.TheSecretDatingSystem.com

Introduction: There are many men out there that fail with women and dating. They failed yesterday, they’re failing right now, as you’re reading this and they will also fail tomorrow. Out of their desperation a lot of them lower their standards with women MORE AND MORE, till they get a woman they are not even attracted to, but anyway…they are grateful that they’ve got a woman at all. Some other men become gay… 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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And some end up being alone for… …THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. Some really bad ideas. Many guys believe that in order to be successful with women and dating you have to be rich, good looking or at the right age, especially when you want to get a really HOT woman. Another common, wide spread belief is that either you are successful with women and dating, right from the beginning, or you will NEVER be. Let me tell you something…

All That Is WRONG! Most of the time, when people can’t do something at all or aren’t very good at it, they think that something is wrong or weird with them… In reality they just haven’t developed the SKILLS they need to be successful at this one thing. It’s all about SKILLS. So if you aren’t good at something like WOMEN for example, then it’s not because you’re a weirdo, and something is wrong with you, but because you haven’t developed the skills you need for that. So forget about all these things like you have to be good looking rich or at the right age. That’s not that important. What’s important is that you learn the skills and that’s what this report is all about.

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Attraction – The Key To Success Inside of this report you’ll learn one of the MOST crucial things you need to know if you want to be more successful with women and dating. It’s ATTRACTION and how to trigger it inside of women. Most men don’t have this skill and do things of which they think trigger attraction, but in reality are killing it, and mess up their chances with her. They tell a woman for example how beautiful she is right when they meet her the very first time, or make her dozen of compliments. Guess what? Really beautiful women hear that ALL THE TIME. So you won’t stand out of the crowd and attract her really much, by telling her how beautiful she is, but instead are very likely to annoy or even lose her. “Oh no! Not one of these guys again…” …is what women think when you start with that normal crap everyone is doing. You’ll be just one of all the other guys who were trying to hit on her. So forget about all the stuff, open your might for some new knowledge for how to attract women and stand out of the crowd. Let’s roll!


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“7 Ways To Attract And Get Any Women You Want, No Matter How You Look Like, How Old You Are Or How Much Money You Have” 1. Be Confident Confidence is the mother of attraction. Write this on your forehead. You can literally know the best techniques for how to pick up women that no one else knows and still be unsuccessful if you’re not confident. NOTHING will be working out for you. It’s so important to be confident and have a strong INNER GAME because all your communication is based and comes from that core and women will SENSE when you’re insecure and don’t have your act together which is highly UNATTRACTIVE to them. So how do you create confidence? I’m glad you asked. Inside of his book “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind” T. Harv Eker explains how our emotions are triggered and how we can influence the results we want. He all breaks it down into the following formula: T F A = R Thoughts lead to feelings. Feelings lead to actions. Actions lead to results. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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Our thoughts actually trigger our emotions which means that we can control our emotions by taking control over our thoughts. This was a big “A-ha” moment for me when I first realized this. Since confidence is an emotion, just like fear is one, you can now control how you feel around women by controlling and observing your thoughts. You can literally destroy all of your insecurities or fears and replace them with pure confidence. Here’s How It Works: We all have been conditioned in 3 certain ways in our lives… 1. Through what we have heard. 2. Through what we have seen. 3. Through what we have experienced. You can use and should use all 3 of these ways to reprogram your negative limiting beliefs that are keeping you away from having success with women and dating and replace them with positive ones. 1. Use Affirmations: (hear) The fist way to do this is to use affirmations which are positive statements you make to yourself. When you say something to yourself over and over again, you start to believe it. Affirmations are very powerful, but they only work if you do them CONSISTENTLY over a certain period of time. I recommend you do them everyday, as long till you’ve reached your goal.


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Rules For Affirmations: - Write them down in 1 person, singular and in the present tense. - Don’t use denials. Only positive terms. - Read them out loud (recommended but not necessary). You should not use denials, because your brain will leave out the denial and therefore you only shoot yourself in the foot. “I’m not scared when I approach beautiful women.” Not, is a denial, your brain will leave it out and… “I’m scared when I approach beautiful women.” is what will be left. It’s counter productive so don’t do it. Find out what your biggest fears are, and create POSITIVE affirmations against them. 2. Create Powerful Future Visions: (see) Another way to overwrite your negative beliefs is to create future visions where you describe and imagine how you want to see yourself in the future. The idea is to describe the ideal you, and how everything would be perfect, just the way you want it to be. Ask yourself questions like “How would I look like? How would I behave? How would I feel?”… The more details you bring in the better it will work for you. The rules are the same like with affirmations. Write in first person singular, present tense and only positive terms. Most of the time, it takes several days to finish your vision completely, because you’re always adding new things to it. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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Read it everyday, and imagine it in your mind. Once you’re doing it for a while you will see dramatic changes coming in, because when you imagine something over and over again it becomes reality. 3. Collect Little Victories: (experience) The third way to create confidence is to actually go out and practice. With every success you’ll experience you will get more and more confident. You will build up momentum. Your victories don’t have to be big encounters when you’re starting out. Start small and build up the blocks. When you’re infield, you can actually use affirmations and visualizations too: Let’s say, you approach a girl. Right before you do this. Tell yourself… “I am good at approaching beautiful women.” (or any other affirmation) and also visualize how you’re doing it successfully in your mind, before you actually do it.

2. Demonstrate High Social Value A very important aspect concerning attraction is idea of SOCIAL VALUE. Women aren’t attracted to men that have lower social value than themselves. Another thing to write down on your forehead. They are only attracted to guys that are of SAME social value or even HIGHER one.


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Unfortunately, a lot of men start acting in low social value behaviour when they see a really beautiful woman they feel attracted to which is KILLING her interest and attraction for them. So how does low social value behaviour look like in action? There are actually 3 types of guys which stand for low social value: 1. The Wussy It’s the type of guy that becomes very needy and creepy when he sees a beautiful woman and starts talking to her. He does everything the woman tells him to do, and he always looks for approval because he doesn’t want to disagree with her and make her made which could mess up his chances with her. 2. The Cool Guy Pretender Some other guys always try to impress the woman they are attracted to and pretend to be the cool guy. I call it the “Cool Guy Syndrome”. “I gotta impress her with my car, my house, my clothes, my money, I’m rich bitch!” It’s ok…settle down. Women can sense when men are not real and pretend to be someone else that they aren’t in reality. And when they figure out that you’re not the cool guy you said you are you’ll be done. 3. The Offensive Guy These kind of guys become very pushy, offensive and sexually aggressive when they are around a really beautiful woman they 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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feel attracted to because they are not in control of their sex drive. Their drive is so strong that it dominates their whole communication and seeks through everything they do. So now the question arises, why do all these guys start acting like that when they see a woman they are attracted to? Why do they fall into “Low Social Value Mode”? The answer is quite simple: They start acting like that because they are impressed by her BEAUTY. Her beauty is what makes them nervous and pushes the switch inside of them to create attraction inside of her. Unfortunately, most men were taught and therefore think that certain things like making women a lot of compliments, always doing what she wants, never disagreeing, or showing sexual interest right up in front will create attraction inside of her which is…

Very Wrong! It’s a wide spread myth that men who don’t have a lot of experience with women believe. That’s why I created this report to show you that these things don’t work, kill this myth and show you what works instead. Beauty is a shit test. It separates the losers from the winners. Here’s how you can demonstrate high social value or in short, how you DHV in order to attract a woman:


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1. Don’t Be Impressed By Her Beauty. I’ve already told you that beauty is a shit test. Loser will get nervous and insecure, and fall into one of the 3 categories I’ve mentioned above. Winners will stay unimpressed and do their thing. When you’re not impressed by a woman’s beauty, she will automatically realize that you’re not one of all these other losers that were hitting on her before you came. She will also assume that you’re a lot around other beautiful women, because you don’t freak out and are able to have a normal conversation with her. And the best way to train yourself being unimpressed by beauty…is of course also to be around a lot of beautiful women. But what do you do if you’re just starting out, and don’t know a lot of hot women? Just get out of your house today, and approach them. Approach them in the streets, in malls, in the supermarket, at social events, clubs, and bars… The more you do this, the more you will get used to be around hot women, and at the end you won’t be impressed by their beauty AT ALL because it will be TOALLY normal for you. I don’t want to go into the weeds here, because this report is not about approaching women and how to handle approach anxiety, but if you have problems with walking up to a stranger and starting a conversation, then read this article: www.TheSecretDatingSystem.com/how-to-approach-a-girlwithout-getting-rejected.html 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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2. Be Preselected And Socially Active. One of the MOST powerful ways to communicate to a woman that you are of the same social value than she is or even higher, is to show her that other women that are AS HOT AS SHE IS, like you and want you. When she sees that you’re hanging out with other beautiful women that enjoy being around you, she will assume, that there must be something to you. Why should all these women want to be around you otherwise? But not only should you show her that you’re preselected by other women, but also that you’re a socially active person in general, that a lot of people like, which means that you should not only talk to a lot of women but also men. So when you’re going out to a club for example take some hot female friends with you, talk to a lot of people there and show that you’re having a good time. Women like men that have good social skills. They’re not attracted to the computer geek who’s all day long in his basement with some of his other computer dudes. 3. Be The Alpha Male. Women feel attracted to strong men. This goes back way to the stone age where physical strength was vital. The man had to hunt for food, and protect his people and himself from wild animals. So the stronger a man was, the better the chances were that he could take good care of the woman. The strongest man of all had also the most power, because all other men where following him. He was the leader. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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That’s why women felt attracted to strong men, and even more when it was the strongest of them. Today, it’s still the same, with the only difference that next to physical strength also intellectual strength is important. So when you’re out with some of your friends, you should make clear and communicate to women that you’re the alpha male and the leader of your group and that everyone is following you. 4. Don’t Give Her A Lot Of Attention At The Beginning. Don’t give a woman, especially if she’s a hot one, a lot of attention right away when you first meet her. Of course, if she’s alone, you have to give her attention, but if she’s in a group, talk to the whole group, but don’t give her that much attention in the first couple of minutes, even if all the other ones are really ugly. What this will do for you is that first of all, she will be confused why you are talking to her ugly or not that beautiful friends and not to her. All the other guys are CRAZY about talking to her, but why aren’t you? It will pimp up your status again, and also tell her that you’re not a needy wussy, a guy who only pretends to be cool, or an offensive idiot. And most important of all: She will recognize that you’re not impressed by her beauty which will trigger HARDCORE attraction inside of her because she will realize that you’re a preselected guy who has a lot of options. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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5. Be A Leader To Her. Not only should you practice your leadership when you’re around friends, but also with women. Women LOVE to be lead and to have someone they just can hang on. They love when a man knows what to do, and how to overcome a problem if there is one. Let’s say you’re out together hitting the clubs and although she’s the driver she also drinks some alcohol. Now she doesn’t know how to get home. Well, it’s your task to find a way how to master this situation. You have to find a way, and take action. Solutions might be that you call a cab, or call one of your buddies to pick both of you up. As a man, you also should make the decisions when both of you don’t care. Let’s say, you’re going out to a restaurant. As you’re walking in with her, both of you don’t know which table you should take. It makes no difference to both of you where to sit, and in such a case you as a man should always decide. It shows her that you’re a leader who knows what to do. 6. Let Her Earn It. What does she have to earn? EVERYTHING… You see when a beautiful woman asks for something most guys IMMEDIATELY give it to her. Whatever it might be… They do what she wants them to do. They drive her around, give her all of their attention right from the beginning, buy her drinks… 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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If you’re guilty of doing these things, raise your hand. Then take your raised hand, and slap yourself silly. If you want to become more successful with women than you are right now, and get some of the hottest women out there, then I recommend you take a different approach. When she wants something from you, don’t give it to her immediately. You have to make clear that you are the prize and that she has to earn it. If she hasn’t earned it yet tell her that she doesn’t deserve it yet and don’t give it to her. So whenever she wants something from you, like dancing with you, say not immediately “yes”, but instead use words like “no”, “not yet”, “maybe” or “later”. There’s a fun game you can play with her. You simply make a point system where you tell her for example that she has to get 15 points that you dance with her or do to another club… For everything she’s doing right, or that’s fun, you give her some points. You can also tease her sometimes, and say “oh now you lost 2 points” when she does something you didn’t like that much. But don’t overdo this concept, because otherwise she will get annoyed and get her chewing gum from someone else or dance with another guy. So if you want to show a woman that you’re of same social value than she is, or even higher don’t do the mistakes Wussies, Cool Guy Pretender, or Offensive Guys make and use some DHVs (Demonstration of High Value) instead.


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3. Build Attraction Waves And Loops Have you ever seen a good horror movie? One that was really full of TENSION, anticipation and that scared THE HELL out of you? I’m sure you have. If not so, you’re really missing out something here. One of the things that you might have noticed in case you’ve watched one is that there’s always a part where tension is created like when a guy is chased by a monster through a forest at night, the music amplifies it, and suddenly, it seems like he’s saved. He turns back, can’t see anyone the music also stops playing and it seems like everything is OK. The tension releases… …BUT, as he turns around, suddenly the monster jumps out of a dark corner and gets him. Good horror movies have these tension waves throughout every part. Tension is created and goes up, then tension is released and goes down then it goes up again, then down again… What these tension waves do is they created MORE and MORE tension up to climax where usually everybody is already freaking out because there’s so DAMN much of it. This mechanism is a very powerful tool that you can and should also use for women to create and amplify attraction. Here’s How You Do It: You can do it with the so called “Push-Pull” technique. You do something that she likes, which is like creating tension or attraction and then suddenly you stop doing it. The tension or attraction releases, like in the horror movie, where the guy 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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thought he was saved. It’s the part of the wave where tension or attraction goes down. Then suddenly, you start doing it again. She will thank you that you start doing it (whatever it is) again. You not only start to create new attraction now, but also amplify it more and more throughout the process. The 3 Kinds Of Push-Pull: 1. Emotional push-pull: This is actually what I’ve described above. You simply do something that makes her feel REALLY good, and that she likes A LOT, then stop doing it, and after some time start doing it again. It really doesn’t matter what this one thing is. It’s just important that she like sit, like for example, a massage, you joking etc. 2. Verbal push-pull: This one is actually pretty EASY. You say something really nice or cute to her that will spark only a little bit attraction (because compliments are what beautiful women hear all the time as I’ve told earlier and therefore don’t work that well), then you pause and after some seconds you throw out the contrary, or something that “pushes” her a little bit away. Here are some of my favourite examples: - You’re the coolest girl I’ve talked to (pulls her in, tension)…in the last 5 minutes (pushes her away, tension release) - A part of me really wants to stay with you…but another part wants to run away. - You know what? I’m gonna make you my girlfriend…for the next 3 minutes. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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I hope you get the idea. Make sure to pause between the push and the pull so that she first thinks, oh how cute and then WHAMM, you throw it in. 3. Physical push-pull: Have you ever kissed a woman, but after some seconds she pushed you away to stop? Well, guess what? That’s physical push pull. So when she kisses you, stop, and push her a little bit away, then start kissing her again; then stop… This will drive her SO CRAZY, and she will want it EVEN more. Physical push pull is a perfect tool to use when you do KINO (create body contact). You don’t want to come across as needy, or pushy, and so if you push her away, like for example when you’re holding her hands, and she says something wrong, you say: “Now, you’ve lost me”, and throw her hands away. What you should get, is that attraction is like a wave. It goes up, and then goes down. Focus on creating those waves and if you do it several times in a row, you’ll amplify attraction, and create so called “Attraction Loops” which is pretty damn powerful.


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4. Be Unpredictable I want to ask you a quick question: Have you ever been out on a date with a woman you really liked, but for some reason she was losing more and more interest in you, and you didn’t know why and could only watch how everything came to its end? Well, this is something that happens to A LOT of men everyday. Do you want to know why? Because the guys become predictable which is a TOTAL turn-off and attraction KILLER for women. Somewhere in the whole interaction the guys become emotionally churned up. They’re overwhelmed by her beauty and start getting needy. Their emotions take over and they lose control. On that point, women know exactly what to do to make guys do whatever they want from them. When you get everything you want very easy it becomes boring soon. I know it sounds crazy, but that’s how it is. If you hold a string over a cat, and put it a little bit down so that it could reach it, but as the cat jumps you pull it up again, so that it can’t reach it, you drive the cat crazy and make it want the string even more. But if you give the string to the cat immediately, it will probably play a minute with it and then forget about it and go away. Why? Because it has become boring. Same with women. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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Being predictable = boring What you want to do is be unpredictable because… Being unpredictable = exiting and adventurous So don’t give her what she wants immediately. A powerful tool is to CONFUSE women especially very beautiful women because they think they have it all figured out yet and know how to influence you to get what they want from you. Well, in most cases that’s true, because many guys do what she tells them to do. But once you show them that they can’t play their game with you, and that they can’t influence and control you like all the other guys, with their beauty, that they have no power above you… …this is when you create massive attraction and distinguish yourself from all the other guys. But what exactly do you have to do to become unpredictable? Just don’t to what everyone else is doing. When I get sometimes in a situation, where I don’t know what to do, I think about what everyone else would be doing. What all the losers would do, and then I do the opposite. That’s how you stay unpredictable. Be different. Be the exemption of the rule. She invites you to her party? Good. Tell her that you come around 9 pm but then come on 11 or 12 pm.


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If you want to create attraction and be interesting, don’t do what she anticipates from you.

5. Be A Challenge. What I’ve found out during the last couple of years and what a whole bunch of women have told me, is that guys give up WAAAYYY TO SOON with women and dating. If they succeed at overcoming their approach anxiety it happens often that the woman they’ve just approached throws some quite offensive statements at them, is flaky, and challenging the guy. Most guys can’t handle this, they immediately back up, feel uncomfortable, like they have lost, don’t know what to do or say and simply go away. What they don’t get is that this is just like beauty ANOTHER SHIT TEST. Women want to see if you’re a real guy or just a pussy. They don’t want a pussy, because they got one themselves. Stay in, take the challenge and once you’re through it, you’ve won the whole race, because know she knows that you’re a guy she wants to hang out with and that you’re not pussy. You passed her shit test. Women love to be challenged and they love the men that have the guts to do that. So How Can You Challenge A Woman? First of all, the idea of challenging a beautiful woman seems horrible and awkward to most guys. Why would you do that? 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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- First, because women laugh this game of challenge. - Secondly you show her that you’re a real man who’s confident. - You stand out of the crowd, show her that you’re not an average guy and boost your social status. Most of the guys would never dare and think about challenging a beautiful women because they think they would lose her that way, and therefore do the thinks of which they think trigger attraction that are totally wrong. When I challenge a woman, I think of her as my little sister. That allows me to get perfectly into challenge mode. I’m not insulting, but I’m challenging her all the time. Here are some of the things you can do: 1. Tease her. 2. Bust on her. 3. Make fun of her (but not too much). What you should not do, is be rude, insulting, or impolite. All of this teasing, busting, and making fun of her, should be done in a moderate and playful way. You don’t want to hurt her really bad, because then she will of course say “fuck you”. You simply have to know when enough is enough, and every girl or woman has a different limit to this. There are some that you can bust on very hard, usually the extroverted, confident, loud alpha girls, but there are also the shy, quiet, inexperienced girls that you should not bust on very hard. The bottom line is, realize that all of this is just a shit test, don’t be afraid to take the challenge if it arrives and watch out what type of girl you have in front of you so that you don’t overdo it. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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6. Have A Playful Attitude Can you remember when you were still in kindergarten or elementary school? How did you behave there? What was your ATTITUDE? Did you take everything very serious? Hell No! You probably didn’t give a damn, right? As children we have much more playful attitude, but as we grow older we become more and more serious, and more and more boring. There’s just not that much too laugh about as when we were kids… Don’t let this happen because when you’re getting the “Let’s be serious” attitude, you become boring, it’s harder to create attraction, to be funny and joke around…it just becomes unnatural. Whereas when you keep your playful attitude, it will be much easier for you to be funny, to start conversations, get physical, have more fun and most important create massive attraction inside the woman you want. As Bugs Bunny once said: “Don't take life too seriously. You'll never get out of it alive!” I think he’s right. So be playful because then everything from approaching to kissing a woman becomes so MUCH easier.


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7. The Right Body Language The last point I want to mention here in the “secret dating system” special report is BODY LANGUAGE. Did you know that you’re communicating 94 % of all what you say only with your body? Hell that’s a lot, right? Only 6%-7% are communicated with the words you say. Most men don’t know that and make terrible mistakes with their body. At the end they wonder what they said wrong because they messed it up, without knowing that it was their body and not their words. It’s really incredible. You can say nearly everything right, but still mess up things with your body! But what exactly is body language? When we talk about body language there are several things to take into account: -

The way you move when you walk How you hold yourself when you stand Gestures Facial expressions The tone of your voice The speed of your speech Your eyes Your breathing

Body language sub-communicates a lot of your inner world and how you feel. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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For example a guy who looks down in the ground while he’s walking tells us that he’s not very confident. Or someone who starts talking faster and faster, and makes fast body movements all the time when he talks with a hot girl is very likely to be extremely nervous in this moment. So your body language alone can tell other people a lot about you in a very short time. That’s the reason why it happens sometimes that guys get rejected when they approach a women right before they have even opened their mouth and said something. The woman could immediately tell that he’s an insecure, boring loser only by watching how he moves and therefore didn’t need to talk with him anymore to find this out. The point is that you don’t have a lot of time, only some seconds to convey a first good impression with your body. Below are some of the most common mistakes guys make concerning their body language and what you should do instead to create attraction inside of women… Common Mistakes: 1. Fidgeting And Fast Movements As I’ve already mentioned earlier, you’re body language tells other people about your inner world. And what fidgeting and fast movements communicate not only to women, but to everyone is that you’re nervous or even insecure. You have lost control over your body, weather you know it or not. Bad enough, but it comes even worse: 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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You will also make the woman you’re hanging out nervous and feel uncomfortable around you which is definitively not what you want. So in order to avoid this and create attraction instead, move slowly. This will make her comfortable and allow her to relax around you. 2. Leaning In While You’re Talking. Many guys lean forward when they’re talking with a woman. This is not good because you’re communicating interest with that to her and if you just met her 1 minute ago, you’re social value will drop and you will look kind of needy and pushy because a guy that has options wouldn’t communicate interest in another girl right up in front. You want her to show that she’s interested in you first by so called IOIs (Indicators of Interest) that women send out unconsciously all the time when they’re interested in a guy, and only after that you can also show her your interest. So instead of leaning in, lean back. This will force her to lean more in, and make you look PRESELECTED for all other women that see you talking with her which will AUTOMATICALLY push up your social value again. 3. Your Hands And Arms The hands and arms are the parts where I can see guys make the MOST mistakes when I’m out. That’s simply because they don’t know where to put their fricking hands. Most of the time you see them standing around with one drink in their hand. That’s ok, as long as you don’t hold it in front of your belly or chest because this is a defensive body posture. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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You look like you want to protect yourself from somebody. So if you have a drink, hold it more down. Even worse is when guys don’t have anything in their hands. Then you can really see that some don’t have clue at all where to put them. Most use their pockets to hide them, which is another bad idea. Other cross their arms and it makes them look very locked and sometimes even threatening which is not good because women like friendly and open guys. Also don’t start wrestling with your hands while you’re talking to somebody. It makes you look nervous and tensed like most of the other mistakes. 4. Your Eyes The eyes are WINDOWS into the inner world of a person and you can tell a lot about someone just by looking in his eyes. Someone that looks down into the ground wants to avoid eye contact with other people because it makes that person uncomfortable. What do we get to know about such a person? Right! That person is insecure. The same applies to people that move their eyes really fast around all the time. They don’t want to hold eye contact with anybody and are looking if other people are looking or talking about them. They observe the area, and care a lot about what others think about them. A very powerful way to communicate confidence to women is to hold eye contact with them for a longer time and smile. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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When she smiles back, you can approach her without getting rejected. 5. Your Voice: When it comes to your voice, speed, intonation and loudness play an important role. Many guys that don’t have a lot of experience with women and are insecure don’t speak loud enough most of the time. This will tell a woman that you’re weak and not confident. Another syndrome of being insecure or nervous is talking way to fast, stumbling over your words. “Gosh, this guy is so nervous that he can’t even talk anymore correctly…” So make sure you always speak loud enough, because when you have to repeat what you’ve said to her, you lose value. Furthermore, speak more slowly, with enthusiasm and pause a lot. You can say the most boring things, but if you speak slowly and with enthusiasm so that everybody can understand you, they will feel your enthusiasm and listen to you. Pausing creates a lot of anticipation and tension. They want to know what’s happening next, so make sure you do this. 6. Your Feet: Have you ever observed some women’s feet? I’m sure you have! Don’t lie. What you might have noticed then is that women have their feet always very close together when they sit or stand. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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It’s a typical female position. Just lady like… But what happens if a man has such a body posture? It gives him a FEMALE touch, but furthermore it also communicates that he doesn’t want to draw attention to himself, and that he’s maybe insecure and shy. Women however, are attracted to MASCULINE, OPEN, and CONFIDENT guys so you won’t reach that with putting your feet tight together. Instead have them more apart from each other with more space in between when you stand or sit. That’s the typical male position. It communicates masculinity, strength and confidence which will are all things women want in a man, and therefore create attraction. 7. Chest and back: Another mistake I see quite often that guys make with their body language is having a round back when they stand, looking like my grandpa. Are you 86 years old or what? First of all, that position isn’t very healthy for you and secondly, you look like a weak old man. Put your chest out instead and your shoulders back, so that you’re back is not round anymore. This will tell a woman when she sees you that you’re strong and confident. Make sure you train yourself to focus also on your body language when you’re talking to women because it’s very crucial for your success and can create MASSIVE attraction for you. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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How To Get You Started: You have to know that all the best techniques and ideas are TOTALLY worthless if you don’t implement them in the real world. They won’t do ANYTHING for you if you just keep them in your head. But if you want to be able to attract a beautiful woman you see on the street or anywhere else than you have to go out and PRACTICE these ideas… …you have to take ACTION. “Action is the bridge between the inner world and the outer world”. – T. Harv Eker It’s the bridge between your fantasies and dreams and the actual reality that you’re living in. Just thinking about beautiful women won’t get you anyone… So because I want you to take action I’ve created some simple steps that will motivate you and keep you on track: 1. Admit That You Have A Problem. No matter how good you are with women and dating, there’s always something to learn, and you can always improve yourself. Let’s say, you look like Brad Pitt, and get one super model after another. Totally easy for you. But when it comes to initiating a 3 some, you totally suck, and always mess it up. If you want to get this thing handled you have to admit to yourself that you have a problem with this, because what you’ll do with that is, you bring the problem from the 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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unconscious into the conscious and only if you’re conscious aware of a problem you can solve it. If you’re just a normal average guy and don’t really know how to get beautiful women…admit it to you and you’re on your way. 2. Define Your Goals. After admitting that you have a problem, whatever it might be, the next thing you have to do is set your goals. What do you want? Do you want to get women or do you want to get super hot models? Do you want to find a girl and start a relationship with her or do you want to get laid as often as possible? Once you know what you want you’ll get much more motivated and when you keep off track remind yourself of your outcome and how good it would be to be there. Also make sure that you integrate your goals into your powerful future vision once you write it. 3. Create A Plan And Follow Trough It Everyday. The last step to get you started and to make sure you’ll reach your goals is to create your own personal plan. Once you’ve put your problem into your conscious, became aware of it, and figured out your goals, then it’s time to create a step by step plan that will make success inevitable for you. Lay out the steps that will lead to your goals and then do them every single day. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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Success only occurs after long term focused energy towards your goal. Very important! You have to practice every day regularly, because then you will create new habits and going out talking to women and attracting them will become totally natural to you. So don’t be one of those people who already quit and give up after one week, saying “Oh, this stuff doesn’t work.” It does work but it takes practice and time. The act of creating a new habit will take you about 30 days. So if your problem is approach anxiety for example, go out for the next 30 days and approach 7 to 10 women a day. After that time you will have created the habit of approaching women. It will feel totally natural then for you and instead of having to push yourself towards doing it you will feel automatically pulled to it. However, if you have problems with creating your personal plan and don’t know what steps you have to take to reach your goal, you can also contact me and set up a 15 minute FREE phone consultation with me. Just click the link below: www.TheSecretDatingSystem.com/free-phone-consultation One little extra tip: When you go out meeting women, don’t focus on getting laid, making out, getting phone numbers or any of this stuff. Don’t focus on your end goal. You’ll only set yourself under unnecessary pressure. Focus instead on LEARNING THE SKILLS you need like approaching or attracting women for example. 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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4. Surround Yourself By People That Are Already Good With Women: There’s a concept called “The Reference Group” and it says that you become like the people that you’re surrounded by. If you take your 5 closest friends and average them out that’s you. Their beliefs, their income, everything… So if you want to become better with women and dating, it’s important that you surround yourself by people that are already very good in this area. The internet is a great way to find those people. Go to Google.com and search for “Pick Up Artist Lairs” or “PUA Lairs” in your country. You can also go Facebook.com and search for PUA groups where you can find and meet a lot of people that are good with women and dating. Here’s my facebook profile and my group where you can join immediately and meet like minded people: Profile: http://profile.to/dariusgreindl/ Group: http://groups.to/20pickupsecrets/ The techniques and tools I’ve showed in this special report are very powerful and if you practice and implement them in the real world you’ll be much better with women and dating than most men are. However, this report is just the tip of the ice berg. If you want to get a full and more in dept education in for how to attract, pick up and seduce women or start a long lasting, intimate relationship with them and keep it then visit: www.TheSecretDatingSystem.com 7 Ways To Attract Any Women You Want by Darius G. ©2009, All Rights Reserved.

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Thanks for your time and I’ll talk to you soon! Your Friend, Darius G. P.S. If you want to get to know me better you can do this by joining me on - Facebook http://profile.to/dariusgreindl/ - Twitter http://twitter.com/Darius_Greindl - You Tube http://www.youtube.com/user/DariusGreindl P.P.S. Don’t forget that there’s a 15 minute FREE phone consultation waiting for you right here: http://budurl.com/72e4 P.P.P.S. Click on the link below to tell me your problems with women and dating and what you want to learn so I can keep on creating FREE reports like this one or products that meet your exact needs: http://budurl.com/kzbw P.P.P.P.S. Once you’re using the material in this report, make sure you send me a message and tell me how it’s working for you at [email protected] You can also throw in suggestions for how to make this report better.


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